Hi! I'm a 23-year-old from southwest London, primarily looking for people roughly around my age (20-26ish) I could be friends with, however I am very much open to the possibility of playing with and/or going to events with you if the friendship connection is there.

In terms of hobbies, I'm into board games, bouldering, music (mostly metalcore & folk currently), gaming, collecting & sharing completely random facts as a love language, walking or running with my dog (I'm happy to send photos, just ask). I'm not too bad when it comes to cooking either. I also do the classic adhd thing of swapping hobbies frequently, so this list is subject to change. Please feel free to talk to me at length about your own interests & passions - I love that moment when someone is describing why they enjoy a certain activity or topic so much & it makes you want to give it a go as well, and I love the energy people have when talking about their passions too. Similarly, please share your fantasy book or series recommendations, I need ideas for what to read/watch next.

I won't go into it too much for now but for the kink side of things, I'm a submissive-leaning switch (in that I usually prefer to sub, but I'm happy to take a dominant role sometimes with another switch). I'm a masochist and a big fan of the juxtaposition of being hurt physically whilst being spoken to caringly. I'm also into primal play and shibari. I have been to a couple of classes for the latter, but am interested in gaining more experience. I've been around in the London kink scene for about 5 years now, and while I've mostly stuck to social events so far, I'm thinking about trying out more play events etc. this year provided I'm going with someone.

I'm relatively tall & slim, with long hair & blue eyes. I've been described as slightly elf-like, though unfortunately, I lack the associated gracefulness. Beyond that, I can direct you to my posts on r/submissivemenGW, but as the name suggests they are of an NSFW nature. I'd love to be able to post some more bruise/mark photos soon though.

If I sound like someone you could get along with, and if you'd like to hang out at a board game cafe or something along those lines, by all means, send me a message :) Let's see if we can overcome the challenge of Codenames Duet together (I have a score to settle with that game) or find a competitive game to dive into.

Small note: as a masochist, I am liable to interpret threats of mild violence made towards me as flirting