So as the title says, I'm looking for someone who I can play with and we can have fun around orgasm denial and edging. I'm obviously very much into denial, and find that having someone to kind of keep me accountable helps inmensely. So basically you're someone who enjoys denying someone else and giving tasks and whatnot, chatting, having play sessions, etc.

To be very clear, I'm not looking for a dom of any kind. Everything is ultimately my decision, but you can make, what I call suggestions, so basically you could say "do X on Y days" and if I feel it's reasonable then I'll follow said suggestion. I am experienced in BDSM so I know what I'm looking for. I have a goal of how long I want to go before having an orgasm, so keep that in mind as well. And of course we can dabble in other kinks as well, orgasm denial is just the one that motivated me to make this post.

Along with this, understand, I have a life of my own. I'm not available everyday, nor do I expect you to be available for me at any given moment. We are all adults with our own lives. This we can discuss further in chat or messages.

As I mention in my limits down below, I don't send pictures. I'd appreciate it if you didn't send them either, at least not without asking me first, and definitely don't send me any NSFW pictures without consent.

I am in Europe. while I don't mind someone from somewhere else, I mention it because of timezones and wether or not those would be an issue for you (as they presently are not an issue for me).

Now that all of that is out of the way, some of my kinks include: bondage, degradation, humiliation, orgasm denial and edging, petplay, bodywriting, anal, toys, nipple play, exhibitionism and public play (up to a certain point, of course).

My limits: anything bathroom related, blood, violence, and I don't send pictures or videos until I'm comfortable enough with you to do so.

Because it is somewhat late here, if you message me and I don't respond in like 12 hours or more, it's not me ignoring you, it's that I've gone to bed and then started my day and haven't gotten to it yet, but I will.

If you've read this far then I do hope to hear from you!