Hi, this is going to be a slightly longer post, so as not to waste your time, here's a rough description of the dynamics I'm looking for, I (dom) am looking for a girl (sub) who wants to become my toy and is willing to live by rules and routines and love being controlled. When it comes to kinks like the orgasm roll, clothing control, praise, receiving pain, degrading, and public play should sound interesting to you. Of course, everyone has an idea of how these kinks are practiced and you don't have to absolutely love any of the above kinks, but you should be interested or curious about them, to fit into the goal of my perfect dynamic.

About my vanilla life, I live in Germany and I am 24 years old. I've been working as a computer engineer for 4 years, as I love coding and tinkering with electronics and computer parts, this interest not only extends to my job but also to my free time. I often build smaller electronic devices, which have smart home functions or program smaller applications for fun, and I also spend time on the computer playing games. Mostly I play small indie strategy games, but I also played League of Legends and Counter-Strike for a long time. So yes I am a little nerdy, but I also do a lot with friends and my family, I like to go to a bar with friends at the weekend, but I also like to be out in nature, I love walking in the woods with the family or playing games with them, riding my motorcycle or riding my bike makes also a lot of fun. At the moment I live with my cat in a 3-room apartment in the middle of Germany. I rarely cook, but I do enjoy barbecuing. Externally I'm on the thicker side, I wear glasses, have brown eyes, and am 1.80 meters tall. My clothing style is on the simpler side, mostly more neutral colors. Other than that, I would describe myself as an open-minded, ambitious, honest, humorous and curious person.

About my kinky side, my interest in the whole BDSM thing started when I was 16 years old. Since then I have more or less continuously been involved in BDSM dynamics, during this time I have tried out a lot of things and also gained a lot of experience. The longest of these relationships was a 3-year D/s online dynamic, where I also discovered my special love for taking control. I love having control over my sub, I love choosing the clothes and setting clothing rules. Searching for new clothes on the internet with my sub. Setting special outfits for special routines and much more, as you can see this is a big topic for me, so it would be beneficial if you are interested in this too. Of course, we will determine exactly how and to what extent we will do this and slowly approach it. But I don't just like to control the clothes, I also love to have control over my toy's body, which includes not only monitoring body hygiene, monitoring lifestyle changes, but also controlling your orgasms. I decide when, how often, or whether you can have one at all. But I also love not only the refusal but also the forced orgasms. Pain also plays a bigger role for me in the dynamic. I like to use pain to carry out punishments and to increase the learning effect, but it is also a way for me to relieve stress, to see how my toy suffers for me makes me feel more stress-free. Also in combination with degrading. I would like to have a dynamic that is active 24/7. Breaks due to health weaknesses or something like that are not a problem for me. Even if the dynamic should be active 24/7, I will not have daily tasks for you, but there will be daily routines. We will discuss all this in more detail when the time comes. I would describe myself as a Dom who takes things very seriously and stands for clear rules and structure. If you behave well and stick to the rules, then you get praise and rewards, if not I can get very nasty. I love to create a detailed set of rules in collaboration with my sub. I love to set daily/weekly/monthly routines that structure my sub's daily life and make it meaningful. I also want to define goals in a dynamic that we will then achieve together with training and other assistance and continue to develop.

Who should you be? I am looking for a woman who is ready to give up her control step by step. Who is ready to live according to the agreed rules and routines, who is motivated to make new experiences and lead a happy dynamic. You should of course be 18 . Experience has shown that an online dynamic with partners from other time zones is very difficult, so it would be an advantage if you live approximately in the European time zone, but not a must. I don't care if you are fat or thin, I love every body type. You should me smaller than me. Your style should definitely go in the feminine direction or you should be open to changing it in that direction. And of course, you should also have a good body. It shouldn't be a problem for you to share pictures until we know each other a little better. It doesn't matter if you don't have any experience in all these topics and are just curious.

So if you feel addressed, if you are just curious or just want to exchange ideas, then write me a message here on Reddit! I'm already looking forward to your message. Why don't you start by telling me what your last meal was, what was really delicious, where was it and what was it?