I have decided to write a quiz to give us something to talk about to start with and to see if we would be a good fit up front. There are a lot of types of subs and Dom's out there. I am established and pretty successful but still have not found the right partner.

Please select all that apply. There is a mix of vanilla and kink because it all matters. I have intentionally tried to give a range of possible answers to see if we would fit.

Please select all that apply.

1. As a submissive:

A) I get my pleasure out of pleasing

B) I like giving up control and not having responsibility

C) I want to be hurt or treated sadistically

D) I like acting submissive in certain contexts as it can be more fun.

2) I want my partner to:

A) Play with me in the bedroom only

B) Play with me when we agree it is time but in a wide variety of contexts

C) Use me whenever he wants

D) I want him to own me

3) An ideal submissive wife

A) Is accomplished/successful

B) Family oriented/has children/raises children

C) Beautiful/sexy

D) Drains his balls whenever he asks

E) Complements her man

F) Is supportive

4) An ideal dominant husband

A) Provide for his wife materially

B) Listens to his wife's needs

C) Decides what is best for the couple/makes the final choice

D) Make his submissive feel special

E) Make his wife sadistically suffer

F) Does what is best for him alone

5) I like to show my submission by

A) Performing sexually

B) Making his life easier

C) Being an object of desire he is proud of and owns

D) Emotional and/or intellectual submission

6) In my life I focus on

A) People

B) Fun

C) Accomplishment

D) Novel experiences

E) Wealth/material things

7) To look perfect for my partner I would

A) Listen to what he likes and do what I feel matches my style that he would also like

B) Dress however he wants me to

C) Change my hair to what he likes

D) Focus on my fitness and health

E) Get cosmetic procedures I want to look better

F) Get cosmetic procedures he suggests to look like he wants

8) People would describe me as a:

A) Athletic

B) Intellectual

C) Nerd

D) Unusual/quirky

E) Girl next door (normal with secrets)

F) Out of shape

G) Ambitious

9) When I have time off I most want to:

A) Relax and do nothing

B) See or do new things

C) Focus on my service to my partner

D) Work on improving myself

10) The aspect of D/s that matters most me is:

A) Physical submission/being physically dominated

B) Mental submission

Thanks for playing. Please send me answers like 1) A, B; 2) D, etc. Or you can delete the answers that do not apply if that is easier in a cut and paste style. Please also tell me your age and what you are looking for. We can start to get to know each others desires via one or more of these questions as a starting off point.