You should enjoy pain. Enjoy the physical sensation of it and the strength it takes to overcome it. You should want to endure it. You should anticipate and need the pain and desire to submit to someone who will give it to you for no other reason than he wants to give it.

I'm not looking to love you. I'm not looking to make you mine outside of this context. I won't paint this in any other light than reality. You'll be giving your body and mind to me and I will use them both as I please, to our limits. I won't make it easy on you. I won't gloss over the unfun parts. I will give you something real.

I know the risks and how to stay safe with all of them. Most importantly I know the difference between hurt and harm. I also know that this involves alot of trust which is why I see this as an on-going thing so we can explore your need deeper and deeper.

Please don't waste my time. I am a experienced Sadist and Dominant 36 year old successful professional male. Please be female, in shape (not attracted to overweight women, personal pref), clean, sane and discreet. Your relationship status doesn't matter to me, nor should mine. Whatever we share will be between us only and very much outside of our daily lives. If you do have a significant other know that you will likely be marked during our meetings, floggers and canes often leave welts, if you need to hide them you might need to consider this more. While we can try to avoid major marking, but it is something that often can't be avoided, at least for a few hours. We are talking marks that a lover would see, not that a coworker would see. We can discuss this if it is an issue.

Most importantly be yourself and know why it is you want this. If you don't know but know you do I can help you realize it.

Drop me a note with a brief description of yourself, when you realized you were a masochist and the last book you read.