About me:

I am single, 5'4", curvy with long curly red hair, dark eyes and pale Irish skin. I am an Executive level, career driven professional that enjoys going to work but also appreciates a healthy work/life balance.

I am independent and strong willed, deeply analytical and intuitive. I am an introvert that thrives on organization and planning, to-do lists, and efficiency. If you're into MBTI, I'm the female unicorn INTJ and fit the mold fairly concisely.

I am addicted to baseball, tattoos, and traveling the world. I am an obsessive reader, liberal minded, deep thinker.

Communication is very important to building the type of relationship that I am looking for. It takes awhile to properly forge a strong relationship. It requires respect, trust, honesty, compatibility, and constant communication. None of those things come easily or without dedication, conviction, and time.

My form of submission is psychological. In order to control my body, there needs to be a deep connection with my mind, built through communication, and a strong bond of trust. Control my mind and you will control my whole being.

This isn't solely about sex, submission, or TPE for me. I am demisexual - I require an intellectual and emotional connection as well as physical. I seek a true, all-encompassing dynamic with a slow build up of trust, honesty, and communication. For the Dominant that invests the time to build trust, a strong bond, and can tap into my psyche, I will truly give my submission. That's not a challenge; it's just my reality. I've found it before, so I know it exists. It just takes time and patience to build upon.

I'm not interested in an online dynamic, however I do not consider geographic location to be a hindrance if the connection built over time leads to developing an IRL relationship. That is ultimately what I seek so limiting my search to my local area seems counter productive to finding my Dominant. I have the means to travel and/or relocate, so location is not an issue for me.

My kinks:

Psychological submission, bondage, rope play, taboo, CNC, anal, sensual play, St Andrew's cross, praise, tasks, biting, somnophilia, exhibitionism, voyeurism. This is not an exhaustive list and there are so many kinks that I haven't tried yet. I want to push my boundaries and expand my desires with someone I trust to guide me. I struggle with humiliation and degradation, so if that's of high importance to you, we may not be a good match.

If you're interested in getting to know each other and open to building a long term relationship, please message me.

💕Mel