Well I’m back at it again, which must mean I’m a glutton for punishment. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve met some incredible people doing this, but it hasn’t lasted the way that I’ve wanted it to.

Hello, I’m a 36 year old male, residing in the northeast of the USA, with a penchant for humiliation, degradation, bondage, orgasm control and denial, teasing, overstimulation, blindfolds, nipple play, anal play, impact play, and more. I won’t divulge the whole list because, well, discovery is always half the fun.

As a dom I consider myself a caring sadist. I might enjoy watching you squirm and saying no repeatedly until you’re blue in the face, but I can always tell when someone’s had enough or when they need that little bit of relief to keep going.

My particular flavor of submissive is a service sub. I’m alright with some light brattiness but I don’t want it to be the primary characteristic. Someone who has masochistic tendencies and enjoys putting on a show for their dom. That’s what I’m really looking for.

Outside of my bedroom antics I’m an avid reader, I enjoy movies and television although I’m slow in catching up on my favorite things. I get out into nature when I can but am admittedly more of a homebody (or couch potato if you wanna be a jerk about it). I’m 6’1, heavyset, with a fair bit of strength. I have brown hair, blue eyes, glasses, and a beard that hides my dimples. Broad shoulders give way to never being able to sit comfortably on a plane or bus, and my long legs don’t help at all either. And while my dom-side can be rather curt and unforgiving, the rest of me is awash in understanding and patience.

I’m hoping to establish a bit of a connection prior to playing. Jumping right into it seems fun but when the fire burns out and you realize there’s no foundation everything kind of crumbles. If you’ve read this far and I still seem interesting, send me a message or a chat. Please include your ASL in your opening message as well as your favorite fictional character.

I hope to hear from you, but if not, then I hope you find what you’re looking for.