I don't do role-playing. I want to get to know you. Make a connection, have a conversation. I'll ask a lot of questions. Some of them will make you uncomfortable. Eventually you'll learn to love it when I make you uncomfortable. In the initial stages of our connection, we will get to know each other and find out if we are compatible. This is because I'm looking for a long term sub. Someone to listen to my commands, no matter what, when I say, how I say and how often I give them. It makes no difference to you. All you will concern yourself with is obeying. This won't happen straight away, a trust will need to be built between us.

The kind of sub I'm looking for usually hides this part of her from her real life. She has a good job or is good in school and has a good family. And is seen as the quintessential good girl. But something yearns inside her for being a plaything for a master. She aches for that pulsing between her legs when she listens to her owner. She can't get the same feeling in her real life, no matter how much she tries. That feeling is only there when she gives in to that slutty side of herself, underneath the mask she shows to her friends and family. Usually, this woman is in a relationship. Married or with a boyfriend. And she knows that if she said this out loud to him, that she ached to be someone's slutty plaything, he'd look at her differently. But I will provide that escape for her. Make her go places the man in her life could never take her.

You know this is wrong, heck it is downright dangerous. But, that is what turns you on, makes you wet, makes you want to take the chance.

My main kinks: Orgasm control, breeding, spanking, praise, CNC, bimbofication, freeuse, outfit control and hypnosis.

Limits: The normal ones, no kids, animals, permanent marking or harm, scat, nothing illegal.

The Type of Woman I'm Attracted To: You probably have a good job and you’re well educated, outwardly and maybe on another Reddit account you portray yourself as a progressive woman, but you crave to serve. It’s void deep inside you haven’t been able to fill. Physically you are in shape. I am not attracted to overweight women (personal preference).

What I am NOT Looking For: You must be comfortable getting on video after a rapport has been established. I am not looking for a penpal.

About me: I'm 36, successful in my career, very well traveled, live on the East Coast, well educated, multilingual - I'm very into continuous learning (both about the world and about myself), meditation, running, soccer, investing and tinkering. I’m married and not looking to change that. If that is a dealbreaker, please stop reading here. No one would guess this aspect of my life if they just knew me day to day - I’ve spent a fair bit of time getting very good at reading people - learning what they like but maybe haven’t explored due to taboo or not feeling safe enough to do so. I can be extremely creative and sadistic; but also like to tease extensively and build gradually.

Physically: I'm in shape, 6'3'', black hair, brown eyes. I've been told I look stern and handsome.

Next Steps: If this is what you crave, message me a short description of yourself, your age and the name of the last last book you read.