First off fellow redditors, you need to understand something important about me: I'm pretty f@%*ing awesome. Not here because of any glaring character flaw or lack of pull in real life dating or anything strange or weird. I have met a few (highly selected) reddit friends in the past and had great outcomes so I figured, screw it, why not try to find a partner too. Can't be worse than the dating apps right?

Basics about me: 44, 6'2 Latino, single, no kids, no ex drama, no obligations. I live with my dog in house I built on my homestead less than an hour from a major city. I'm highly educated from a top engineering school, and worked in finance for most of the top banks on wall street. But in truth I hate banking and want to retire and be a farmer/app developer for my own account.

Personalitywise: Man's man, old school masculine, teacher, supporting, leader type. Huge nerd with a touch of the 'tism but also socially aware and extroverted when I want to be. Very good with my hands (built a lot of my own house), very good with my brain, and exceptionally creative. Enjoy shooting, cooking, gardening, dancing.

Lifestyle stuff: Love travel, museums, exploration, knowledge, art, dancing. I generally live my life quietly with bursts of passion that I thrive off. I love nature, science, and astronomy, as well as philosophy and metaphysics. I have many hobbies (too many) but homesteading in general takes up most of my free energy these days. I don't attend church but was raised catholic.

Sexy stuff: Prob gonna crosspost this a few subs so here is some spicy shit. I laugh at people who build their whole personalities around a "lifestyle or aesthetic" so I hate using predefined words or ideas. That being said, you could call me a soft dom and a natural leader. There is nothing cooercive or forced in how I approach women. I like to seduce naturally and enjoy flirting and building tension. I have a wide range of experience with bdsm and caring for different sub head spaces (brats, ddlg, sub/dom, master/slave, pet/owner, whatever). I want my partners to find a healthy balance that works for them. Not into humiliation, sharing, cucks, or degradation shit. I like to build people up, not tear them down. I also enjoy shibari and want to get better. Finally I have a very strong drive and outlast most women I've met (not looking for virgins or asexual women).

About you: cis woman 20 to 32, and with a real desire to commit to someone special. Exudes feminine energy, enjoys dressing cute and sexy, not insecure. Fit, 90-135lbs. Wants family, wants kids, non tobacco smoker, with no strange chemical dependencies. Not into contour heavy makeup, plastic boobs, or injected botulism. If you're dating up, simple, clean aesthetics are always more valued. If you want to be a SAHM or want to be a professional and build your career, also fine by me. My only goal is to see you thrive and be happy.

Finally: I am a very transparent person and I am sharing some pics here. If you open a chat with me, include a picture please. I am not seeking a penpal or a online relationship. If you are in a relatinship or cant travel, don't reach out please. If you cant prove to me you are a real person, I will lose interest very very quickly.

Look forward to hearing from you 🌹

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