Hi all and good evening!!! I hope everyone had a safe 4th of July holiday (if you celebrate)!! I will try and keep this as short as possible, as I know I can ramble a bit. I am a 30, single woman living on the east coast. I am submissive, but I’ve been told I do have some bratty tendencies. But nothing over the top. I’ve been in and out the lifestyle since I was about 18.

I realize putting myself out there can sometimes seem overwhelming, but I prefer not to deceive anyone. I am about 5’2, AA with hazel green eyes, and working to lose weight. I hope this isn’t held against me, as I know I want to have a healthier and active lifestyle. Pls be patient with me as I am doing my best and working hard 🥹 (also any tips for weight loss or healthier meal alternatives always welcome!)

I do enjoy scary movies. I also like anime and video games, so those that identify as nerds are also encouraged to message me. I have been a PC player for years but I have recently crossed over to the console side, and I am enjoying being able to play games I wouldn’t have normally played on my pc (my pc needs a bit of an upgrade, which is a work in progress).

At one point, I thought I wanted a TPE, but I ended up chatting with someone and they made me realize maybe that isn’t want I want, or that person just wasn’t compatible with me. I want to submit to someone I can have a genuine, authentic connection with. A man that knows bdsm isn’t just something to spice up your bedroom/sex life. I crave that connection so bad. While I feel happy for those who can find that kind of connection, I still feel envious because I haven’t been so lucky to find it myself.

I am searching for someone in the US, I am open to long distance. I ask that you know how to communicate, and be open and honest with your intentions. Any person 25 is what I’m looking for age wise. While I know life happens, I am not interested in any kind of poly dynamic. I am monogamous, and my partner should be the same. Anyone that is not emotionally intelligent, or able/willing to communicate, my apologies but I would not be the ideal partner for you. Also, if you are married, not officially divorced and/or involved in any kind of “situationship” where the other person feels they have a claim to you, please do not approach me. No judgement, I just know what works best for me.

I do appreciate you all taking the time to read, I am an introvert so talking about myself isn’t my strongest trait, but I hope to hear from people soon! I am open to questions and conversations to see if we are a good fit for each other. Also, tell me your favorite color in your message! 🥰