Once upon a time I had something that felt like pure magic. The kind of connection that feels like it’s supposed to last longer than the trees will keep standing. However, sometimes things don’t work out the way we think they will. So, here I am back to the drawing board to try and see if lightning can strike twice for me.

The kind of dynamic I’m looking for is somewhere between soft domination and sadism. A man who wants to nurture and build me into something better while also breaking me down to the foundation to start from scratch with his image in mind. Someone who can possess my mind and my heart and soul along with my body. I think developing things from a friendship first that builds naturally into a romantic place and a dynamic. All three parts are vital to a successful relationship, in my opinion.

Enough sappy rambling, here are some things I enjoy:

• cozy video games
• horror movies
• those Wattpad stories that got turned into movies
• watching a movie together while we text or somethin
• making playlists for each other/sending songs
• artsy selfies or basically any picture you might take
• reading books
• binging a new hobby until I’m sick of it
• tattoos
• food

About me physically? - 5’ - heavily (?) tattooed - green eyes - <200lbs/curvy - dark hair - glasses - wish I was more fashionable and retro

You? - age is kind of subjective, but <45 is probably required - willing to talk to me like I’m the subject of a Hozier song - likes texting and calling - looking for long term - attractive, you know if you are at least somewhat nice to look at - not pressed about a super fit guy, but you probably don’t wear bigger than an xxl

Kinky stuff? - I can’t switch, my brain can’t really handle it but I do have an attitude problem lol - typical limits: nothing illegal, scat, permanent bodily injury, etc - I’m into a slight DDlg situation, but I don’t really view myself as a little. I can be a little childlike, but it’s not extreme. Usually just whining - orgasm control is big for me, edging, cumming on command etc.

I probably won’t go into more, but those things felt somewhat important from a compatibility standpoint. Despite this being so long winded, I promise I’m very chill and laid back. I’m also superrrr funny I swear. I will banter with the best of em if you give me something to work with. This ideally would advance into an in person situation, but for now I’d like to build something online.