Good evening,

26, single, white, curvy, 5'3, shoulder length auburn hair, hazel eyes and often wear glasses. I am very inexperienced and new to the world of kink, but have known for a long time that I am submissive, had a few kinky...ish experiences in the past that have left me craving more! No longer interested in purely vanilla relationships so here I am...

I am looking for a long term, real life D/s dynamic which will hopefully lead to a TPE style dynamic. I want my Dom to have control both in and out of the bedroom - including full sexual control and control over day to day life (within agreed limits, of course.) these dynamics obviously do not happen over night and require a lot of trust, communication and honesty. I am looking for a Dom who is prepared to take his time to guide and train me on this journey - a Dom who is kind, caring, sane, strong, strict, fair and firm.

My kinks include: impact play, restraints, gags, blindfolds, face slapping, orgasm control/denial, humiliation, degradation, pain, rough sex, CNC and more!

Here is the possible dealbreaker... I am autistic. It does NOT hold me back in life. I am able to work, I drive and I live alone. But I do have a lot of anxiety, especially when meeting and chatting with new people, so it is important for me to find a Dom who is patient and understanding of this, however, I would NOT be prepared to get into a dynamic with someone who is also autistic... I have my reasons. Take a read of my pinned posts on my profile as there is a lot more information there about me and the autism.

Posted before and never have any luck as most people who message don't bother reading these ads and miss the bit where I say I am not interested in online play, married men or younger men... SO... please be aware that... I am NOT interested in any form of online play or online dynamic, I am NOT interested in guys younger than me - my preferred age range is 29 - 45, I have absolutely NO interest in married men! I do NOT send face pictures unless I am comfortable with you and I do not send nudes. I am NOT looking for sex chat or to read your erotica. I will never submit to anybody until after we have met in person. Please, please be respectful of this... I will simply ignore any messages from people that have quite clearly ignored this. I don't mean to come across as a Karen, but it is so frustrating when so blatantly ignore peoples wishes. If you expect me to call you Sir or Master after 1 message then you will also be getting ignored.

I am pretty certain I will have no luck once again, but if you have read this and you tick the boxes then please feel more than free to message me! Say "cheese" in your message so I know you have read this abysmal ad of mine! XD

~ M x