I’m a 33 year old man looking for a long term (perhaps even forever!) FLR with a charming, dominant, and emotionally sadistic lady. I’m a professional and present as traditionally “masculine” in a traditionally “powerful” field. In the interests of full disclosure I am out of shape and insecure about my body. I hope this will be something you enjoy using to dominate or humiliate me, rather than a flaw you just tolerate.

I am intelligent, honest, devoted, hard working, and know the importance of emotional investment and devotion. In my ideal relationship, my partner is a Goddess. I adore her; I worship her; I desperately yearn for her approval and attention; I serve her and I prioritise her wants and needs over mine. In return all I hope for is her firm commitment to maintaining that dynamic and holding me to it. I think my place as a man is at your feet, at your beck and call, your well trained dog even if also your loving life companion and friend.

It is important to me that we have genuine chemistry and interest in each other. I would like to see this start online and progress into an in person cohabiting relationship if all goes well. Experience on here has taught me that I need to be explicit about money from the outset. I am not looking for a paid domme or findomme. While I am open to you having control of my income and playing with findom as a kink as part of a long term relationship (and even find this appealing), it is not what I want to begin with in the first 6-12 months. Please respect this.

That aside, I’m open to many kinks - from gentle and loving femdom to the harsher and more humiliating. The latter has a certain appeal to me especially (but not exclusively). There is something intoxicating in my devotion being met with teasing or cruelty at just the right moment. Chastity, cuckolding, 24/7, worship of all kinds, begging, and the contrast between my dignity in public and my complete debasement in private are all things that have a certain appeal to me. But none of these is essential. The most important thing to me, in all cases, is elevating you, your comfort, your wants, and your needs, into my overwhelming priority.

If this sounds like it might be worth a conversation, please do send me a chat request introducing yourself and let’s see where things go!