In my nearly fifteen years of experience as a dominant, I've found that no matter how good the sex is, it just isn't satisfying for me if we don't share a genuine rapport outside of the bedroom. In fact, good conversation with a partner is a big turn-on for me. I'm always interested in what's on my sub's mind, and love learning everything about them. Of course, I'm just as happy to gush about my own interests, share cool trivia, etc. I used to like discussing current events, but that hasn't been a fun topic since 2016.

To get into some basic requirements up-front, I'm looking for someone close to my age (30 preferred, but absolutely no younger than 25), single, who wants kids (and ideally doesn't have any yet), is a non-smoker, and who is pretty solidly left-wing (ACAB, Trans Rights, down with billionaires). We should have at least a fair amount in common (see below), and while I expect us to start out online, the eventual goal is to meet in person.

As a dom, my big focuses are teasing, overstimulation, and psychological play (and a bit of erotic hypnosis, though some subs have an easier time with that than others). I love making a partner beg for it and seeing her break beneath the waves of overwhelming pleasure. I much prefer giving affection and praise over inflicting pain and degradation, as well. Of course, I do enjoy rough sex just as much as the slow and gentle style, I just don't go out of my way to make it hurt. I'm typically not satisfied with a session until my partner has had at least three orgasms. That said, lately, I've been working on getting better about just relaxing and letting my partner pleasure me once in a while. I also have a massive breeding kink.

Outside of the bedroom, I'm very much the nerdy type, but I would also say I'm fairly well-rounded. I'm into video games and movies, sure, but I'm also into live theater, music, history, science (especially "soft sciences" like psychology and sociology), art, and pretty much any other intellectual topic you could think of. I love learning new things, and I'll frequently research anything that catches my interest or curiosity. My tastes are similarly diverse. For instance, I enjoy a lot of modern TV/movies, but I also like cult classics with niche fanbases, as well as older stuff that a lot of people have forgotten. I also love swimming. My dislikes include hiking, camping, hunting, fishing, and social media.

If you're interested in what you've read so far, feel free to shoot me a message or chat request. Please be detailed, and include both what you found appealing in this post, as well as what you think I'll like about you (don't hesitate to brag, confidence is sexy). If you'd like more info about me, feel free to browse my profile, as well. Anyway, thank you very much for reading, and have a wonderful day.