First things first: I'm ENM and have a nesting partner. I'm also autistic and struggle with executive dysfunction, sensory triggers, and anxiety.

Who you are: Someone who is just as comfortable with the written word as they are with spoken (I have auditory processing difficulties and experience non-speaking episodes when I am tired). Approximately between the ages of 28 and 38, but I'm flexible on this. Someone emotionally intelligent. Someone who gets pleasure out of both control and connection.

A former Daddy Dom gave me rules about self care/journaling/bedtime/etc, and having that accountability and external structure did wonders for my sense of being "safe" and feeling less alone in my fight to keep up with a neurotypical world. I would love so much to have something like that again. Just one moment each day to hear, you did what I told you, you did well. Or, you messed up, but I'm going to help you be better next time.

Someone once told me, "the dedication of a sub to following rules is one of my biggest kinks." Whether you are asexual or allosexual is of no matter to me. What is key to my D/s relationships is that there be some desire or need I am satisfying. Or to say it another way: while I will not perform any sexual tasks for you, it will make me happiest if my obedience fills a sexual, emotional, or other need for you. Ideally, you would see my autistic nature as something valuable -- find it pleasing to tell me to (for example: "remind me about xyz") at 7:00, and know that I will do my utmost to do that not at 6:59 or 7:01, but at exactly 7:00.

Bonus points if you have experience/interest in talking to someone in littlespace (mine can vary between 4 and 8) and would be willing to help me find that headspace again. I haven't been able to let go of my worries that way since December, and it's wearing on me.

Yes, I know this is a lot of text. I don't apologize for it. Writing is my happy place and often my love language <3