Hi :) I'm Eli/Tolkie! (Pronouns: they/she, sometimes he, gender fluid afab)

I'm looking for a CG or soft dom to help me with my little space and maybe adding a gentle and respectful structure to my life. Someone to give me a guiding hand, to encourage me, who understands that while a firm hand is needed - I struggle sometimes and need a bit more patience!

Physical description: 5ft on the dot, white, blue eyes, freckles, I have a five piercings, curvy figure, a tattoo, short hair (currently silver and black).

SFW stuff: I'm autistic, have ADHD, and struggle with depression (all of which have been and are being actively managed). I like writing and reading, video games, outdoorsy stuff, my two big dogs, and horror movies! I really want to teach literature or linguistics at a university level one day. I'm pretty driven, but having someone to help me establish a routine and keep me at it, especially when I'm in my little space , would be amazing. I basically find EVERYTHING interesting to be honest... there's just so much cool stuff out there! I also love languages, and will be studying two in university this semester.

NSFW: I'm open to sexual situations after getting to know someone more, and it entirely depends on what that involves for both of us. I want to know that we get along, I want relationship before anything else. (My littlespace has two different situations - sfw and nsfw, so I want to ensure that the person I'm with know what those are before sexualizing anything). Kinks: orgasm control, restraints, anal (plugs only atm), MD/lg, chastity, collaring, overstim, praise, period sex Interested in exploring: pet play, anal sex, some impact play Hard Limits: Scat, extreme impact play, needles, vore, gore, extreme degradation.

If you're interested my DMs are open to getting to know each other! Have a lovely day

P.S. seriously no men. I am strictly into women (trans or cis doesn't matter ofc) and gender queer afab people