Hey everyone, my name is Tara, and I live in Wisconsin. As of the time of this post I am 26. I am very new to the BDSM community and so I proceed with caution when it comes to meeting new potential play partners and Doms. I would like to start out by saying that I am not looking for a romantic relationship for the time being. I was with someone for 7 years and it never amounted to anything. I am currently working on my own trauma with a Dom that I see from time to time. We text everyday but rarely get to see each other due to the distance between us. He is a very sweet man and shows that he genuinely cares but we are both allowed to see other people.

Before I go further I would like to point out that I do not want kids or marriage. I am not opposed to the BDSM dynamic with a Dom who has children. My biggest rule is that no matter what your child needs to come first and that you are someone who does not let their child meet every sexual partner that you have. Now, in no way I am trying to tell anyone how to parent their child but my father forced me and my siblings to meet every woman that he cheated on my mom with.

That is another thing as well, I will never help anyone cheat on the partner, so unless you are in an open relationship with your other half. DO NOT MESSAGE ME! Thank you.

I do like to talk on the phone and text. I love the idea of checking in daily to see how we are doing. I do not believe in constant texting because I view that as unhealthy. More so checking in every few hours throughout the day because everyone has their own lives. I’m not opposed to a long distance BDSM dynamic but would prefer something closer.

Outside of the dynamic I would like us to be friends and be able to hang out together. I would much prefer that we would not hold hands or do anything really affectionate. That is not to say that I don’t want you to be a gentleman around me. It’s just that I don’t want to catch feelings for anyone.

I do spend time with my family every week and I work the night shift. I’m a bit shorter around 5’3 and am a bigger girl. I have tattoos and currently have a mohawk. I listen to a lot of different music but mainly hard rock and some heavy metal. My favorite band is Ghost. I love watching horror movies and comedies. For the time being I live on my own and do appreciate my alone time. I am on birth control and have been tested about a month ago. Me and my Dom regularly get tested.

Kinks

Cockworshipping Bondage Electrostimulation Impact Play (to an extent) Orgasm control Rope Bondage Wax Play Cum Fetish Breast Slapping Pussy Slapping Ass Eating Hair Pulling Choking Growling in my ear Biting Spanking Restrained

Soft Limits

Exhibitionism Masochism Voyeurism Collar and Leash Breeding Kink

Hard Limits

Foot Fetish Humiliation Degradation Scat Piss Vomit Blood Rape Play Age Play Race Play Cock and Ball Torture Claustrophilia Clown Fetish Cuckolding