Let me be very clear about what I want.
I want to know you. I want to know how youāre feeling, what youāre passionate about, what that moron at work did. I want to share in the highs (hopefully adding to those) and hold your hand through the lows. Share laughs, ideally often. Iāll be excited for your successes and I want you to be excited for mine. Be in my corner and Iāll be in yours. Letās make fun of each other sometimes, while knowing thereās real caring. In short, a relationship. Itās not easy, but I know itās possible.
Hereās the other part of what I want: the s to my D. A girl who longs to be a slut for the right man (thatās key, isnāt it?). Who wishes to give up some control, because I need to exercise control. I wonāt get into the specifics too much because every situation is unique, but I want to own you, as much as is feasible (and of course there have to be limits). Iām well aware that this isnāt for everyone and thatās fine. I just want one girl who wants to put herself in my hands. Itās a beautiful thing when it works.
And the real kicker: I want to combine both of those aspects in one person: the everyday and the kinky. Real affection and using you as I wish. Ordinary conversations and filthy ones. This has been the challenge, Iāve found. I need both. I canāt be satisfied without the sexual component, and vanilla just wonāt do it for me. But it canāt be all or even mostly about sex: I want to know someone and I want her to know me. Develop the kind of trust where we can share anything. Without that, it doesnāt work.
I understand very well not everyone wants this. Not everyone wants to open up that way. Not everyone is into what Iām into. Iām OK with that. I donāt need everyone. I just need you, the woman who read this and thought, āYes.ā If thatās you, you should get in touch.
The mundane details: Iām in EDT. Educated, professional, and pretty much look and dress like it. HWP and tend to be attracted to the same, give or take. Physical attraction does matter, though personality and intelligence are foremost. Age is less important than expressing yourself well and having things in common. Iām not bored and you shouldnāt be, either.
I prefer messages to chats. Tell me about yourself and what you want.
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