I’m 27F and live in the US. I’m looking for a fairly casual online D/s dynamic centered around orgasm control, blowjob/deepthroat training., and the feelings of humiliation that come with it all. I’ve been practicing self-denial for a while and I love how desperate and needy I become after a few days, but struggle to keep myself denied much longer than that. I’d like to find someone to hold me accountable and help me to explore this further.
I’m a bit shy and easily embarrassed. The thought of someone else having complete control over my orgasms is a bit humiliating, but at this point, I think it’s what I need.
I’m not interested in being told how/when to touch/edge myself. Rather, I’m looking for someone who will encourage me to edge as much as possible and then tease/degrade/humiliate me about how desperate I’ve become. I also have a Lovense toy and would love to have it controlled until I’m a desperate, begging mess - and then denied.
The longer I’m denied, the more desperate, needy, and eager to serve I become. I’m hoping to find a Dom who just loves having his cock sucked and would like to train me (ideally over a voice call) to suck on a dildo exactly the way he likes it, and any time he wants it.
My ideal Dom is kind, respectful, understanding, with a bit of a sadistic streak. Bonus, but not required: an interest in frequent spanking/punishment.
Things I’m not looking for: * A relationship * IRL * TPE * DDlg * A lot of rules/protocols (obviously with this type of arrangement there will have to be some, but I’m not looking for tons)
If you’ve made it this far and are interested, send me a message telling me a bit about yourself and what interested you about my post.
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