Hi! I’m 26, female, seeking a very specific type of dynamic. I have quite a lot of weight to lose and I want that to be the focus of a dynamic.

Hold me accountable to workouts, healthy eating, getting steps in, weigh ins, meal prep, etc. Use kink as a way to keep it fun/exciting/motivating.

About you: actually physically fit/active yourself with coaching/personal training/YEARS of fitness experience (one or more of these is an absolute must). You aren’t seeking for me to keep you motivated in your fitness goals. You have the time to do voice/video calls on a regular basis (ideally at least once a week) and text throughout the day. You want this to be done in a healthy manner - no quick fixes and know that this would be a longer commitment (18-24 months is the minimum for the weight I need to lose).

It goes without saying, I’m a bigger girl. You may or may not find me attractive. This isn’t the dynamic focused on how I look right now. You should be okay with this and know that the “turn on” is helping someone through accountability.

This can look different in a multitude of ways but continual communication is a must. I’m in the EST time zone and you should be able to accommodate that for communication for this to work. I’d love to do voice/video calls during workouts on occasion so you can be there to hold me to a high standard and push me to go harder. I already have a coach that provides my workouts & a nutrition plan. You’d be helping me stick to that.

Other kinky things can be worked in, as I am rather submissive and I’m open to this. But know that the priority lies in what I’ve noted above. If you’ve made it this far, share your favorite way to be active in your initial message so I know you read everything. Please also include your age, time zone, why this post made you send a message, your experience in health/fitness and any questions you have for me.