Hello and thank you for taking the time to read this post.

Need to know information: I am married, she is Asexual and aware that I’m here searching. Think closed polyfidelitous vee esque.

I am looking for a relationship with someone who is into kink, yes, but also a life partner. A friend to the end. Someone whom I can bond with in its own way.

A bit about me (vanilla/SFW side): - Dad. (Got the box as proof 😜) - Medically retired. (Disability.) - Introvert. - Gamer. - Dog person. - Lots of tattoos. - Always have a beard. - Enjoys gardening. (Currently terrible at it, still learning.) - Foodie - Loves movies. - Night Owl. - Scared of the dark. - Veteran

There is more to know, feel free to ask. I do highly enjoy 20 questions. 😉

As far as the disability goes, I have service connected PTSD. I don’t mind opening up about it now. The part that I’ll highlight is what lead me into kink. The PTSD gave me nightmares and massive anxiety which led to nocturnal enuresis and some day time issues if my anxiety spikes, which means I have to wear protection to bed every night and during the day on some occasions.

As far as my kink side/NSFW section I’ll try to break it down in two sections.

For the switch sub side of things there’s a few things I enjoy: - Pegging (not rough, gentle and loving) - Diaper positivity (checks, changes, pats, reassurances) - not so much a kink but I melt for forehead kisses - Latching/suckling (ANR/ABF dry or wet) - Teasing

For the Daddy/Dom side: - Diapers (Same as above, I’d like to not be alone) - Cnc - Praise - Aftercare - Freeuse - Anal - Punishments - Rules - TPE - Light bondage

I’m sure there’s a few more that I’m missing. That is just a list of possibilities, not requirements. Every relationship is different and I respect limits. We can discuss and agree on what we both like and where we draw lines as individuals.

My favorite part of being a Daddy/Dom is the bedtime routine. Giving you a bath, helping you dry off, choosing your pajamas and dressing you. Then tucking you into bed with forehead kisses. What is your favorite part of being a little/sub?