Hey everyone, 35 yo male sub here based in London looking to meet up with someone IRL. I’m 180ish cm tall and just over 70kg, so a skinny/slim build, fair skinned, and have brown hair/eyes.

First and foremost, I’m looking to meet with someone I can connect with beyond kink. I’m not really interested in a one-and-done type thing, I’d like to get to know someone, do things together, and for kink to be just one part of that. Since I’m looking for meeting up, I’m looking for someone based in London. Ideally you are also mid-to-late 20s or older and have some prior experience with kink.

I’m currently a lead in a tech team, so am the opposite in personality at work to my real self outside of it. Hobbies-wise, I'm into a few outdoorsy activities like cycling and long walks. I read a lot of non-fiction, mostly history and politics, but also Steinbeck amongst other modern American authors. I'm a decent cook though would like someone to help me stop my soufflés from wilting. I also go tend to go to gigs around once a month.

On the kinky side, I’m a conscientious and obedient sub who revels in the service aspect of submission. I tend to prefer a more gentle domme but am comfortable with someone who has sadistic tendencies too. As part of any play, I really enjoy things like fulfilling tasks for my domme’s benefit and playing within certain protocols or rules that they have set.

Kinks-wise, I would describe myself as a rope bunny and really enjoy being bound and getting stuck in a few predicaments. As I mentioned, I’m into the service aspect of submission, which I appreciate can mean different things to different people. For me I like the sexual side of that and things like face-sitting and oral (this little cartoon speaks to me: https://www.reddit.com/r/gentlefemdom/comments/180ecrh/keep_him_quiet_and_distracted_oc/). I am comfortable with impact play and light to medium pain, anal play, and humiliation. I also enjoy dressing up in uniforms or sexy outfits. Oh, and I’m super ticklish! Hard limits for me are age play, poop, vomit, gore, playing under the influence of alcohol or any other drugs.

Lastly, I wholly subscribe to the safe, sane, and consensual mantra and I would expect anyone I play with to do the same. Anyway, hopefully this has interested a few of you, and if so, please don’t hesitate to send me a message and I’ll try to reply as soon as I can.