Hi, I’m a submissive. I’ve been interested in the lifestyle for years, played with online doms and participated in a few kinky scenarios in the real world. I’ve had some difficult relationships and sexual experiences in the past, and am now fully embracing my sexuality and getting comfortable with my body and what I want as I get older. I have been finding myself wanting more, and realising that submission is a very healing and important part of my life. Hence, this post. I’m looking for a weekend dom.

I work a very high stress job, with very long hours and it consumes a very large part of my life. On my days off, I like to be around people. I like to drink, socialise, go to events and bars and experience new things. I like Glasgow. I like to have sex. I like to let my responsibilities melt away and fall into a headspace that feels natural and light. I have ADHD, and a certain degree of immaturity that comes with being in my early twenties. I would love to find an energetic slightly older man to encourage me in all of this, who understands the lifestyle I want and has my and his own best interests at heart.

In return for this encouragement and guidance, I want to offer you something you need. Control. Power. Simplicity. Trust. Someone that will laugh with you, adore you, who’s attracted to you, who wants to please you and respects your boundaries. Someone you can let out a little bit of your dark side too. Or even a lot of it. Someone you can drink with, and play with, find comfort in. I want to be something you don’t need to worry about. Something that makes your life better. Something that’s reliable, and consistent, and there. Something you can plunge your fingers into, and let out a sigh, because you know it belongs to you.

Now, fetish. Although I’m open to everything and am happy to continuously explore, there are things I want and need from a dynamic. - Subtle but noticeable displays of submission in public. Such as you ordering for me, not talking to other men, minding my manners. - I would want a weekend collar. One that I put on myself on the train to meet you and you take off me just as I leave. I’d like this to be recognisable as a collar to people who know, but still appropriate for public spaces. - I’d really like to attend bdsm events or clubs if the opportunity arises. - I would like to perform acts service and although this comes naturally to me, I would enjoy commands and encouragement in this area. It’s amazing how the words “Go make me a cup of tea” turn me on. (Or even better “Go make me a cup of tea, slave.”) - I have an oral fixation and I encourage you to take advantage of it to the fullest extent. - I like being degraded and dehumanised, or embarrassed privately to some degree. This could include sucking your toes, licking your ass or drinking your piss. - I like being groped, I like attention, I like feeling like a sex object. I like being bent over and fingered and played with. - And my biggest kink; marks of ownership. Bite marks, hickies, bruises. - Although not completely necessary, I am a masochist and it would be very, very fun if you were a responsible sadist.

Im still evolving of course, but this is what I know. I communicate my wants and needs better by reflecting, by writing it down. I’m working on my verbal communication but I’d like you to take the lead. I want to encourage you to ask me anything. My compliance is expected, it’s secure. You can command me and speak freely. If there is anything I am not interested in (which is rare, I’m interested in everything as a new sub), I will communicate any boundaries or limits. You should never be worried about saying the wrong thing or being judged.

Needless to say, communication and trust is the most important thing. Planning out scenes before hand, establishing safe words, checking in with each other regarding our mental health and lots and lots of aftercare for us both.

Phew, thank you for reading all that. I hope I attract the right kind of people and I look forward to your messages!

P.s. even if you don’t think we’re a good fit, I’d love some new friends or to go to cool events so feel free to dm me for that!