A post a week until I find I find my princess! Attempt 10.

I am not your Dom if...

1. ...you're not okay with long distance. I'm living in southwest Germany at the moment, but will be moving back to the Midwest, United States at the end of August of this year. If we vibe, I'm down to make it work. If you're back in the United States or Canada, we can meet up then.
2. ...you can't handle rejection. I believe most relationships start on the foundation of physical attractiveness. It's why we ask people out in the first place and then find out if you're compatible afterwards. Here is a SFW pic of what I look like and a video of what I sound like. I would very much like to see what you look like before we proceed with anything else.
3. ...you want children. As the world is right now, I've made the decision to not bring any new life into it. I've thought about it for a long time and you can't change my mind about that. If I ever do change my mind, I would consider adoption.
4. ...you're too young or too old. My most comfortable age range is 25-29, but I'm still okay with anyone around 22-31.
5. ...you're transgender. I have no beef against transgender. In fact I support Trans Rights, but it's not my attraction.
6. ...you're against pro-choice. Women have the right to bodily autonomy. If you think they should be denied that health access, then we can't get along.
7. ...you voted for or supported Trump, or any of the extreme right wing party views, or thought the election was stolen. Being a good person is fundamentally important to me. And they don't stand for anything good.
8. ...you're not pro-science/pro-vax. If you think that the vax is some sort of conspiracy or that feelings matter more than facts. Leave me alone.

I could be your Dom if...

1. ...needing permission to cum or even touch yourself makes your pussy tingle. Edging. Denial. Chastity. You want to cum, but you need to hear those precious words: "You have my permission to..." Suddenly, your denied pussy is making the decisions and you're becoming a little more open minded. All to please your Dom and convince him to finish that sentence.
2. ...pain feels as good as pleasure. Your nipples pinched. Your back whipped. Your breasts flogged. Ass spanked. And face slapped. The sting hurts so good that pain blends with pleasure. Your pussy is dripping and all you can do is hope for more.
3. ...feeling owned makes your mind hot and fuzzy. A collar locked around your neck reminding you who you belong to. You don't make the decisions anymore. What you wear. Who and what you text. What you post online. When you can go out. When you can go to the bathroom. He'll take what belongs to him. By force or even when you're asleep because your life and body belongs to him now. And you couldn't be more turned on.
4. ...being beneath your Dom brings you comfort. You love it when you're spat on. Called degrading names. Forced to be naked inside your own home. Crawling on the ground. Sleeping in a cage. You can't imagine ever being on equal terms when you're around your Dom.
5. ...you want to feel safe in your Dom's arms. Even after all the pain, name calling and degradation. Your Dom still cares about you. Your safety and well being is his top priority. He makes sure you understand that. He lets you know that you're not only his slut, but his precious princess. Carrying you to bed and kissing the bruises on your cheeks.

SFW Me:

Surface level, it looks like I don't live an exciting life. I'd rather stay home and play video games or watch anime or a movie, but that's not to say I don't want to explore and experience new things. Seeing the world would be amazing, I just like doing it in the company of people I like and trust than by myself.

I come across as a submissive in person. I'm pretty socially awkward and can be anti-social, but I'm not nearly as bad as I was when I was around 18-21. Give me some time and I open up to the people around me and can be pretty chatty. I love to make people laugh, even if not all of my jokes land.

I like to draw and if you look at my profile, I'm pretty good at writing too. I enjoy watching and learning about films. I'm a dog and a cat person, though due to current living situations, I don't have either. But would love both in the future! I don't smoke and I rarely drink.

I do workout (5'10" and about 160 lbs) and would expect my sub to be into fitness like me.

I don't expect nudes or to be called any title immediately. I expect to earn that privilege from my sub when they think I've earned it.

Kinks: bondage, shibari, humilation, degradation anal play, nipple play, breast play, sensory play, oral play, slave play/ownership, mild pet play (yes to collars, cages, bowls, no to barking or meowing), discrete public play, orgasm control, somno/cnc, impact play, breeding, blackmail, toys, safe knife play

My absolute favorite kinks being spanking and edging.

Limits: I would never punch, kick, fist, or cut my sub. Not into toilet play, shit/piss play, animal play, incest play, impregnation/children, and I would never force my sub to do anything that would jeopardize anything crucial in her life.

I applaud you if you made it this far and would pat your head if you allowed me to. I do have a list of rules for my sub, but if you want to hear about those, send me a message! Hope to hear from you soon!