Hi!

Sorry this is going to be a lengthy post, but if you don’t read all the way through it, I’m not going to reply to you, and you can suck it.

About me:

I’m 30 and living in the Midwest. I have my shit together. I have a career, a house, a great group of friends that I love to hangout with. However, I’ve always had a drive and desire for BDSM dynamics, and specifically, submission.

I’m a sapiosexual, I’m wickedly smart, can outthink just about anyone, and fucking love a good banter. I love reading, learning new things, and anything unexplained or strange.

I’m curvy, but not sedentary. I love being outside in nature. Hiking, working with my plants, horse back riding, scuba diving, snowboarding, and wakeboarding are some of my favorites. I can also shoot a gun and fish with the best of them. I’m a phenomenal baker, and I love to cook.

I’m empathetic, I care for others deeply and often find myself invested in other people. I’m probably overly kind, I’ll overextend myself to help someone, even if it’s at a detriment to myself.

I’m a giant masochist. There’s an emotional release from pain that I love. My pain tolerance is high, almost too high.

Physical attraction, while not super important, it’s important enough to me. However, I don’t have a type, and if you can keep up with me banter wise, you’ll steal my heart.

What I’m looking for:

I’ve always been drawn to sadists and those who inflict psychological domination. Someone domineering and possessive. Someone who cannot get enough of me. I want someone to fall madly in love with me, and hold my vulnerabilities and submission. Someone to care for me, but also guide me, provide advice, and dominate me in all aspects.

In return, you’ll get from me my submission, endless empathy and someone who cares for you because you are you, not because you’re inflicting pain on me.

I have a wide range of kinks I’m happy to explore, but figured it was better to open with what I’m searching for.

I want something deep and all consuming. Not just inflicting pain on me, a random internet stranger.

Location isn’t a big deal. I can travel, although I am extremely busy, so this would be primarily online for now, with the potential to meet in the future.

Your picture gets mine.

Xoxo

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