Hello all.

This might be a bit of an outlier post, and I’m okay with that. If the length doesn’t scare you off, you might be what I’m looking for.

Lynn here, back on the hunt for a male Dominant. It’s been several years on single, the last few quiet and fairly solitary, but looking to dip my toes back into the local kinky dating pool (if that’s even something that exists). I’m seeking to take my time and get to know someone for a LTR. I’m ready to settle down but wanting to take this slow and see where it goes. I’ve had some good luck here in the past and some not-so-good. If, after you’ve read this lengthy ad, you think we would be a good fit, send me a message.

I’m a 33 year-old submissive woman who goes by Lynn (until we’ve gotten to know each other). I come from what seems like the middle of nowhere in Atlantic Canada, and based on that the options have been limited for finding myself a Dominant male. I’ve had some partners over the last few years who have inspired much personal growth but nothing lasting. I do have the propensity to be a bit of a brat but if you’re confident and in control I imagine I’d be much more satisfied to drop that and be the best girl for you. I’m moving past that into a more mature mind frame, but just need a man who can handle my sassy, sarcastic, dirty mouth. There was once a side of me that desired just as much control in bed as I have in my day-to-life, but that isn’t what gets me off, and I identify myself as deeply submissive in all aspects outside of my work-life. I enjoy fulfilling a more subservient lifestyle with some interest in more traditional gender roles outside of my active work life with partners that I click with.

I can be quite shy, stubborn, and hate making decisions when it doesn’t pertain to my work. I’ve been told that sometimes I come off as difficult to get to know because of my introversion and the fact that I do like to take my time to get to know my potential partners before divulging my entire life’s story to them or hopping in bed. I don’t find any pleasure in pure sex if I’m not attracted to your personality and/or mind. There has to be some sort of emotional connection. Hook-ups have never been my thing, but I am more open to a situationship for the right person over the summer that might be geared towards adventuring both in and out of bed — I need a partner in crime!

With that said, I’m looking for something serious and long-term. I’m open (and ready) for the possibility of marriage if the right partner happens to come along. I’m not looking to be a third in any couple. Been there, done that, not for me. If you’re married I don’t want it.

Although I wouldn’t consider myself a brat any longer, there are times that it still bubbles to the surface. I’m sarcastic with inappropriate humour at times, socially awkward and more than a little nerdy; I enjoy building puzzles, am a gamer, and some might describe my musical tastes as atypical. In my free time, I often write smutty roleplays. I like warm weather, like exploring waterfalls and summer activities (I think I was born to be a fish 😂). I have one cat but I need a man so I can get a doggo, too — I’m only partially joking… maybe...

I’m short and curvy and if skinnier girls are your thing, then I’m not for you. I’m working on making some lifestyle changes but I won’t ever be a size two (and I’m perfectly okay with that). Fat shaming is a hard limit as I can be very conscious about my size.

In regards to the juicy stuff, there’s very little I’m not into sexually. I’d love more experience with rope and bondage, working to increase my pain tolerance, and to live out this lifestyle to the best of my ability. There’s never enough learning or practice when it comes to this lifestyle. It is ingrained in who I am. I love 24/7 D/s relationships, with strong potential for a TPE scenario as my ideal goal as well as the hope for a free-use relationship. I like rough sex, have some pretty dark interests that border on extreme, love watersports (yeah, not everyone’s cup of tea, I know), and love protocols and routines. Check out my profile if you’re still here, because there’s a lot more interesting conversation starters found there in my kink list! : )

About You:

Confident, open-minded, honest, adventurous Single Monogamous 24-45 Mobile (willing to start online but would love to find someone that would be open to closing that distance eventually. Local-ish preferred!)

Intelligent - as I mentioned earlier, I’m attracted to more than just my partner’s dick and the ability to carry on a intelligent conversation about a vast multitude of general, kinky or completely random subjects is quite the turn-on for me. If your profile is bare it’s likely we won’t be a great match. If you can’t put in the effort to spell out the words you want to use to communicate with me instead of using text speak it’s likely we won’t be a great match either.

Smoking is a dealbreaker for me.

It does take me a while to warm up - I won’t be meeting up with you after just two messages, but especially with these crazy circumstances. I’d love to get to know you. As a last note, please be patient if you’re waiting for a reply from me — with this pandemic I’m working a ton of overtime with a crappy schedule, so sometimes I don’t get right back to my messages but I promise that I will shortly — I’m usually pretty good about my response times, though.

If we mesh well I’d be willing to send a face pic eventually.

Cheers, Lynn.