25 year old, butch lesbian engineer. 5’6” with curly dark brown hair, causasian. Medium athletic, not skinny but not fat either. I’m busy and travel often. In my free time I love hiking, going to the opera, dancing and reading books.

In my kinky relationships I like to play with gender dynamics and take the traditionally masculine roles. Outside of the bedroom I’m very caring and love it when my partner is affectionate and cute. In the bedroom I like to play with dynamics of control and degradation. I’m looking for a girl who wants to be treated like a kitten in public and a fucktoy in private. I have a particular fondness for girls who dress beautifully and do their hair and makeup delicately, so that I can have the pleasure of wrecking all your beautiful work with rough, sloppy sex. Some of my main kinks involve bondage, exhibitionism, domestic discipline, degradation, hidden sex toys, over stimulation, trophy gf style showing off, anal, roleplay and many others. In general I love trying new things and never kink shame, so if you have a kink that’s not on that list I’m probably happy to try it ;)

I’m also looking in someone who is interested in both sexual and nonsexual submission. Only in a private way of course, I don’t want my friends and family knowing all my kinky business. But I do love bringing small aspects of kinkiness into traditionally romantic acts. For example maybe we would have some rules for what sorts of sexy outfits you might wear on our dates, or perhaps you might be snuggly and cute like you are in sub space even when we are just curled up watching a movie - things like that.

I’m open to some online messaging to start, but long term I’m really interested in meeting women who would eventually be willing to meetup IRL. I’m based in Berlin so someone in Europe would be ideal.

Also as lovely as many poly people are, I’m really looking for a monogamous relationship. I want a little pet of my own, not to share.