So here's the situation.
I've never hit anyone, which is probably a good thing in general. My ex had a spanking kink, but I could never bring myself to spank her, because I just didn't feel right hitting her.
I have no problem pinching and pulling a nipple as if I'm trying to rip it off. I have no problem with choking someone. But I have a mental block whdj it comes to hitting.
I want to be able to spank or slap a partner if they request it.
I'm looking for a practice dummy. I'm looking for a woman who will let me practice spanking & slapping them, some impact play.
I know it is an odd request.
I'm 45, chubby, with a beard. 5'8", single DDF, had a vasectomy, single, live alone, live downtown.
If there are other kinks you want to work in there let me know. Although keep in mind, if I'm having issues with spanking, then I'm not going to be in for heavier pain play, like needles. But fine with degradation, spitting on you, pissing on you if you want.
I am great at separation of kink & real life, but I can't jump over that hitting barrier.
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