Hello fellow wanderers. Stay a while… and listen😉

I am a dominant with years of experience in dynamics both irl and online only. I am looking for a submissive play partner to join me in a long-term dynamic that blends play and exploration with a deep connection. In my experience, at least, to know someone well is to touch their desires; firmness in the areas that crave it, caresses where a lighter touch will win the day.

I have experience playing with people newer to kink and I am comfortable to be approached by people of all experience levels provided you have enthusiasm and openness.

My style blends daddy, mentor, and primal - with a touch of sadism to meet your need. Therefore, you can expect compassion, strong/frequent communication, nurturing, tailored aftercare, and a focus on growth, with a greater degree of firmness, precise direction, intense desire and impact play to taste.

Ideally, I am looking for an irl dynamic, but I am open to online only to start or as time progresses. For the latter, I would expect to be playing with someone of focus and consistency – online only is often bedeviled by some who aren’t too serious, and I want to make sure both our time is being invested wisely.

To set a better expectation of what a dynamic might involve from a play perspective, I enjoy (but am not limited to):

Tasking

Edging & denial

Overstimulation

Restraints

Spanking & other forms of impact play – light/medium

Free use & objectification

Toys & insertions

Humiliation/degradation/ praise – in any combination of your enjoyment

Roleplay

Mental Domination

Limits: illegal, scat, blood

I am fiercely intelligent, articulate, and imaginative. I will appeal to those who see Domination as primarily will and mind based, though I can still throw you around, don’t worry 😉 I tend to be very meticulous during an introduction rather than getting carried away with things. This is to gain as much insight as possible and to work out if we might be a good match. I will not be a good match for those looking to rub one out of an evening. No judgement, enjoy yourselves, but I don’t do freebies 😉 If you enjoy getting to know someone, to be able to discuss everything and nothing with, you will find me a more than suitable conversationalist.

The characteristics I am looking for in a play partner are: enthusiasm, openness (ideas and emotions), strong desires (even if not clear exactly where they sit yet), excellent communication, a close match for kinks, intelligence, and the ability to really listen and hear.

Physically speaking, my tastes are varied, and I have played with people of various ages and body types. Personality is the most important thing for me to make a connection. Still, I will be happy to exchange pictures early on to ensure mutual attraction exists.

If this sounds tempting to you, please get in touch and we can discuss it in more detail. For everyone else, good luck in your search.

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