Thank you for those who are curious, interested, or any other reason you have for reading through this post. I will be thorough in this post to ensure that you have a good understanding of what I am looking for to see if it compliments what you are interested in yourself.
Myself (Normal)
To start, I want to describe myself a bit. I am a black man who stands at about 5'10. I have athletic muscular build. I also have brown eyes and black hair. I would consider myself easy on the eyes.
For a non-physical description. I have an interest in fitness, reading, photography, technology, and comedy. My friends would generally describe as calm and even kill as there isn't a lot that gets to me. Definitely more of a listener than a talker myself. I also am considered a nerd/geek especially as my guilty pleasures are anime, manga, adult comedy, and dark humor. Especially for those who like Pokemon or shows like Rick and Morty.
Personally, I am the type of person who enjoys getting a really good workout, showering, then relaxing at home or a quiet public space. I don't party that much, but I do like going out to try new things from time to time.
Myself (Kink)
As a kinky person, I try to live the lifestyle as I can. I am personally looking for a play partner or BDSM lover, but I am not one to rush or make someone be in something that they don't want to so I do take person by person. I am thorough when speaking with someone new about being involved on a kink level as I want to have a pleasant and positive learning experience for both my partner and myself.
For my roles in this order I am a Master, Dominant, Sadist, Owner. In general, I have had experience in all three roles though I have had the most in the first two. I have been in the lifestyle for 4 years now and am still learning to this day. I enjoy the aspects of the mental and emotional control that lead to aggressively pleasurable physical responses. While have done NSA, I prefer engaging in some sort of dynamic that still allows for friendship outside of it. I want to also assist my partner in their interests and kinks as long as boundaries are established and compliment each other as well (Don't be afraid to ask).
For anyone curious about messaging me, I want to be clear that I am upfront and honest from the very beginning. I would rather we not waste our time if for example we don't mutually find each other attractive or we don't have complimentary kinks and interests as well. This is just apart of the vetting process and if you are not interested in properly vetting then I would not advise sending me a message. This lifestyle is about trust, safety, and pleasure so I want to be sure that we connect and will fulfill each other's desires.
I am open to learning from or teaching anyone who interested in having me. Also, for those who have partners, I am not interested in hiding thiings from your significant other. If you both have agreed upon you taking a BDSM lover that is one thing, but anything else is considered cheating and I do not want to be apart of that.
I am DDF with test ready to be shown and I hope you are just as willing as well. I prefer to have fun while keeping my partner safe.
For those that have finished reading, thank you. If you are interested in sending me a message know that I am open to those in the DFW area. I am not looking for something long distance or online. I have more details like kinks to share, but let's save that for when we talk. Finally, to know if you read this post, when you send a message include your top 3 kink roles and what kind of dynamic are you looking to explore/engage in.
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