Here's the thing, if we're being honest with ourselves, entering a dynamic takes a lot of trust. A LOT of trust. And it should. After all, we're asking for more than just a connection, we're looking for THE connection. The one that allows us to open up fully and be our authentic self at all times. But often, we're not quite as vulnerable as it will take to find what we want.

However, this is the part where I step in to say that this will not be the case here. How can someone claim to offer a green flag dynamic? It's simple really. You'll get the fully authentic me, and I ask for the fully authentic you. No drama. No doxxing. No judgment or fear of seeing your photos on some sleazy website. Just us, and the possibility of finding something real and meaningful in a space that often leaves us disappointed. Who wouldn't want that?

I'm committed to it, and if you are too, come find out if we're the pairing we've been looking for.

Without further ado, I'm a 30 year old dom who very much fits the mold of your dom-next-door. I work in mental health with a PhD in clinical psychology, and love what I do. If you have an intellectual kink, I just might be able to scratch it for you. I'm well respected in my field, and have quite a bit of influence in my circles. I know, I know, very dom energy but that's why you're here. While masculine presenting, I have a softer side and love art and culture. In fact, I spend more time overanalyzing it than I care to admit. While I wouldn't say that I'm nerdy in a video games/comic con way, I may be considered nerdy in a baroque art/classical literature way. I have been told that I come across as intimidating and confident on a first impression, but again that's why your here. Otherwise, I love sports, strip mall thai food, and not asking for directions.

I've been a dom for a long time, as in over 10 years. I've been in the lifestyle intermittently, as life and work would allow. I'm at a point recently where not only do I have the urge to reconnect with my dom roots, but the time to do so. As such, I'm ready to take on a sub for the first time in a while. It's not vital to me that our kinks line up exactly, as I can tailor them to you, but some of mine are orgasm control, fun humiliation (as opposed to life altering humiliation), TPE, mentoring, and impact play. Be warned, my sex drive is very high, and yes this is a sexual outlet for me. Of course it is also emotional and psychological, but I feel it's a disservice to not mention the prominent roll sex will play. Again, that's why you're here.

Who are you? I can't wait to find out. I have few preconceived notions about who I would like to find, but here are some groups that I have found compatibility with in the past:

-Stressed out pre-professional/graduate students. For some reason, medical and law students really hit it off with me

-Single mothers needing an outlet from their day to day life

-Sexually repressed women, bring out that religious trauma haha

Just some that have found an audience with me, but come as you are! Be kinky, and ready to dive in. Like I said, this will be a safe place, and I will prove it to you. Just me, you, and all the places we can go together.

If this sounds like what you're looking for, send me a message with the basics of age, location (state or time zone is fine), and a little about you. Include what you hope to find in a dynamic and why now is the time for you to pursue it. If you're brave, send a picture to stand out.

I look forward to hearing from you. Prepare to turn the keys over to me, and I promise you'll never look back