Howdy! Real fast, please do not respond to my ad if you are:

-Man or man-adjacent.

-Below 21 years old or over 26.

-Looking to dominate for money.

-Looking for a quickie or threesome. (F/F/F poly is OK)

-Not seeking a romantic relationship.

Now that that is out of the way! I did not mean for this to be 1600 words. Thank you for your patience.

Physically

5’10 femme with LONG hair, little chubby but athletic figure. Good sized “assets”.

Who am I?

I am a very passionate, detail oriented person. I am currently working my way through my bachelors with the goal of going to law school. The intersection of disability, civil, and labor rights is really important to me. Both in who they impact and how they are implemented. There are a lot of problems in the country and I want to be able to influence those in a positive way. Currently, to make that impact, I am a journalist and I try to educate myself on various topics so I can help educate others. The feeling of a polished piece is incredible, even if I grit my teeth every minute of writing it.

Religion and ethics are deeply important to me. They guide me through hard times and influence how I interact with the world. I am a pagan and an animist and because of that, I limit the meat I eat to what is ethically killed and I try to respect life, including us as animals. In practice, I am vegetarian. Do I fail? Sometimes, yeah. I’m only human after all. Otherwise, free will is my chief value, with knowledge and respect below that. These values lead me to be very progressive and strongly anti-capitalist.

Respect, kindness, and etiquette is fundamental in how I interact with others. Social interaction can be really difficult for me, it often feels like I am looking through a distorted window. This leads me to find comfort in rules and procedures. I attempt to sit and stand up straight, use formal language, and use a kind tone of voice. You never know who you might be making an impression on, after all. Sometimes this backfires, however. It can make it difficult to get close to people, and it often puts me in an out group when around others. Honestly, while it can suck, I am happy to live my life in the way I want and enjoy my own hobbies.

I cast a wide net with my hobbies. Creatively, I write, paint, and I am (occasionally) learning to play the piano. I really want to get into poetry as well as learn to play the violin and cello. For painting, I enjoy oil pastels and water colors. All of them are rare though. It can be difficult to pull everything out and clean everything up. I also love cooking and baking. One of my favorite things in the world is seeing someone’s face light up from delicious food I cooked.

Physically, I run most mornings and I am attempting to implement yoga. In winter I have a lot of fun skiing, even if I am not very good. My daily running gives me life. I feel like the world falls away with each step. I feel like I can breathe for the first time after being under water. I want to get into archery and bouldering. I have a lot of fun with both when I periodically do them. Unfortunately they are expensive so I don’t do either of them as much as I’d like. Hiking is always a fun option, too. Sometime in the future, I’d like to learn how to hunt. Mainly with a bow.

Intellectually, I am fascinated with the stars. They inspire me and I adore just laying there watching and studying the sky. Hopefully I will get a chance to see a better sky soon. I also really enjoy reading, and learning as a whole. I am currently working on learning French. I want to learn a ton of other languages, and math. This is an extension of my love of culture, religion, magick, and simply people. History, philosophy, how everything works, it’s just endlessly fascinating. I could talk about it all for hours. The connections, the color of our world and the brightness of our shared experiences. Life is magnificent.

What baggage do I have?

I would need to pay for extra checking on a plane. I was born with various birth defects and disabilities that impact everything. Some of them are being in intense chronic pain, various medical issues, and being born transgender. While I have had several surgeries as a kid, I am not ashamed of anything. I am not proud of them either. Everything simply exists. Anxiety and depression have been there since I was a kid, and a few years ago I was diagnosed with ADHD. While I have not received a diagnosis, I am fairly certain I have mild autism and definitely CPTSD and/or PTSD. That's life, however. These trials have definitely made me into who I am today. Not only the values I hold, but my resilience and independence are both extremely high. I am as stubborn as a bull when needed, and I can adapt like ditto from Pokemon. I only have one last thing left for my transition, bottom surgery. Hopefully I will get that soon. Gosh I need it. It’s hell without it.

What am I looking for person wise?

Person wise, I am looking for someone with similar lifestyle, values, and energy level. Additionally, someone who has purpose. It can be as minor as wanting to eat a bunch of different types of cupcakes or as grand as making a real life FTL drive. Just please have some kind of drive. Something to get you out of bed every day.

I spend a lot of time caring for myself, being particular with what I eat so I can feel decent and I spend a lot of time exercising. In spite of my disabilities I plan to live a long life full of pleasure and I want a partner who wants the same. Everything is infinitely easier if both parties are able to eat and live healthily.

I want someone who can be serious when needed, but otherwise is happy to dance to the music. I can be super giggly and I love running around being a dork. Laughing, joking, having fun. Splash in the rain. Live life to the fullest. Life can be so short. I want to be on my death bed and not having regret a damn thing. I’m looking for a long term, mostly monogamous, relationship. One built on trust, love, and care.

If you decide to reach out, please start it with the name and artist of your favorite song.

In general, I am fairly introverted and low energy. I enjoy a conversation more than a loud party. Too much high energy, particularly when I’m stressed or focused, can sometimes make me frustrated. It is definitely something I am working on. I definitely prefer being around quieter people, if not outright being alone. While I love my alone time, I love my cuddles too. I have a high sex drive, and I love going the extra mile. Making cookies or cooking for my romantic interest, or getting flowers or whatever else. I want to court you, dear reader, and I want to be courted as well. Sweep me off my feet. I’m rather old fashioned that way.

Goal wise, I want kids. Not biological, but adopt or foster. There are so many kids who need a home. Ideally, I would like to have a large home in the woods. Maybe bring life to an area that was destroyed or abandoned. That would so wonderful. At some point, I’d like to travel a bit too. The world is so colorful. Although some of that traveling will likely come from writing/law/politics stuff. Who knows.

Aesthetically, I am looking more for femmes and futches, than butches, but I am definitely flexible. Otherwise, just be healthy. Muscles are a major plus, though.

What am I looking for kink wise?

Kink wise, I am looking for the possibility of growing to a 24/7 type of dynamic after a while has passed. I put my kink list below. In short, I am a masochist and very submissive and obedient. Not a brat, but definitely sassy. Pet play is what most of my interest is in, but I also like doll play and slavery. For pet play, I prefer being a human pet, but as a pup is fun too. I am looking for a firm and sadistic “mommy” style domme who craves control and who likes rules and is possessive. I adore condensation and giving up as much decision making as I can. For pain, I enjoy both physical and emotional pain. I enjoy being taken care off too, in that degrading and objectifying “oh you're just a silly pet. You cant do xyz. Let Mommy handle all of the decisions” or a “I know it hurts, but Mommy likes it, so be a good girl and keep taking it” kind of way. I like other forms of edge-play such as blood or knives, too. I like leather, and a lot more. I am an experimentalist for sure. Again, everything is on the kink list.

I want my entire being to be someone’s. I want to be a prized possession. Yours to baby, to pleasure, to hurt, to guide, and to control. Submission gives me so much joy. I crave it.

If you think we are compatible, please send a message! I will verify and ask the same in the future, too!

Kink List