On the surface, people will think we’re a loving, normal and happy couple. And they’ll think that because we will be. I want the cute date nights. I want the late night conversations. I want to be the rock you lean on when you’re having a bad day and the person you want to share anything and everything with. The inside jokes and the secret handshakes. Concert buddies and travel partners. We are each other’s other half. Best friends that are truly, deeply and madly in love with each other. I want the romance, fun and fulfillment that only a loving relationship can bring. Outside of the bedroom, we’ll have the kind of relationship that makes people think we’re made for each other. We’ll support each other, prop each other up, push each other to be the best possible versions of ourselves, and ultimately build something meaningful together. An equal partnership right down the middle.

But in the bedroom behind closed doors, I want you to completely and fully submit to me. I want you to worship me. I want you to give up control and obey me. I want you to get pleasure from pleasuring me. I want to own you. I’ll reward you in return. I fully understand that I have to earn that and this type of dynamic needs to be built over time. And I’m more than happy to put the work in to build that. Together. I’m open to a lot of kinks, but we can discuss that together when we get there. This is mainly geared towards the bedroom, but I’m open to this dynamic bleeding outside of the bedroom and into our daily lives as well if we can find the right balance.

About me: I’m a 34 year old guy from the Los Angeles area. I’m caucasian/mixed, 5’11, 175lbs, black hair, wear glasses, dress well, and have a few tattoos. Fitness is really important to me. I exercise and work out multiple times a day and am in good shape. I’d consider myself attractive and am often told that I am, but you of course can decide for yourself. Beyond that, I’m easy going, fun to hang out with and talk to, and am generally a good time. I have a great job and my career is important to me, but don’t take myself too seriously outside of work and know how to have fun. I like traveling, eating my way through the city, spending time outdoors, going to concerts, pretending I can tell good wine from bad wine, learning about anything and everything, reading (non-fiction), and an endless list of others. I like sports, good coffee, and lazy Sundays. I enjoy keeping busy and learning about/experiencing new things, so I have an endless list of hobbies and interests. Hopefully you share that same curiosity towards life.

About you: You’re independent (outside of the bedroom) and career-driven (to a healthy extent). You’re kind, caring, thoughtful and have healthy emotional reactions. You’re past the party stage, but don’t mind letting loose every once in a while. You’re in decent-to-good shape and value your fitness and health. You’re someone who’s got it together. Someone that wants me, but doesn’t need me. Ideally, you’re around my age. Physical attraction is important to me. You’re looking for something monogamous. And as I mentioned, hopefully you’re a generally curious person too. You live in the Los Angeles area as I’m not looking for something online.

Shoot me a message if you’re interested. Let’s chat a bit and take it from there.