Hi! I’m Daisy. I’m 25f and am located in Chicago. I am currently seeking a consistent play partner. I am open to amab or afab, but prefer you to be 25 . I am also open to playing with a couple if the vibe is right. I would prefer for you to be a top, but I am open to switches as long as you understand that I will not top you.

Who am I?

I’m a 25 year old located in the Chicago area. I’ve been active in the scene for the past year and a half, but have become very active specifically in the last six months. I host a local munch and have a home dungeon that I frequent. I am very involved in the local community. I will share my fet upon request, but will not friend you on fet unless we have met IRL. Honestly, most of my free time is spent with people I’ve met in the community, either doing kinky shit or just hanging out. I love being outside, reading, cooking/baking, and binging tv shows. Ask me about where I’ve traveled. I’m an avid solo traveler and am always down for an adventure.

What specifically am I looking for?

First and foremost, I want someone who feels safe. While I am looking for this to be a play partner relationship, I also want someone who will be a friend - someone that I am able to go out and do vanilla things with, as well as all of the kinky things. I am not looking for a full D/s dynamic, but I would like to incorporate D/s elements into most of our play.

I am not looking for exclusivity, but I do want someone who gets tested regularly and will share the results with me. Further, I will require that they inform me when they are doing things with other people for my comfort (obviously, I would reciprocate).

I need proactive and open communication at all times. In this vein, I would like regular contact and communication outside of play as well. As I said above, I want this person to also be a friend - I’d like to be able to communicate throughout the day, check in on one another, talk about life, send each other memes, etc.

I will require affirmative consent to be the MO during any play. What does this mean? I need this person to ask before any action is taken, before just assuming consent. My preference is for everything to be outlined 100% before we start, and if I don’t okay the thing well ahead of time, we don’t do it.

What are my kinks?

There are many various kinks I’d love to explore, including but not limited to impact, wax, rope, sensation, fire, electro… If you can name it, I probably have tried or want to try it/experience more of it.

Sex

While I understand that kink is inherently sexual for a lot of people, for me, it doesn’t necessarily have to be. While I would love to be able to play sexually, I have very strict parameters for this. Any potential play partner needs to understand that we may never have PIV sex. It entirely depends on our connection and a lot of other factors that I will go into detail with privately. Initially, I will be open to fingers/oral. Receiving only, until I am fully comfortable with the individual, when I may want to reciprocate.

If you’ve made it through my wall of text, thanks for reading! If anything resonated with you, please message me:) I’d love to chat and see if we feel compatible.