Hello!

Thank you for reading my post ❤️. I know I’m likely not as enticing as the 20 somethings but I’m still looking for my Daddy so why not try Reddit?

Vanilla me - I’m a BBW (currently working on getting healthier but it’s a process). I work in the IT field, with some new dabbling in craft selling. No children, never married, live on my own.

I love board games, video games, learning new things, podcasts, cooking, camping in the warmer weather.

Non-Vanilla me - Similar to my vanilla self but I crave and want discipline in my life. It’s a pretty core kink for me as well as spanking. I’m open to other consequences as well within that middle headspace generally speaking - grounding, early bedtime, loss of privileges, etc.

I don’t tend to have a specific age that I play really. If I’m safe in that headspace I can go younger but generally I hit around 8-10 on average. Older like teenage is fun to role play sometimes but I don’t have a desire to be that age regularly.

I love to learn but rarely have the follow through unless I have someone poking me. A small list of hobbies I have started but not gotten too far with would be indoor gardening, robotics type kits, violin, candle/soap making, paper crafts… sadly this list can go on. I have eclectic interests and love to try new things.

What I am seeking in a Daddy - someone who is fun with a sense of humour and doesn’t take life too seriously. Someone who can be strict but fair and wants to work more towards a happier us then finding reasons to punish (I’m totally fine with role play to fulfill this need for either person too). Someone that would attend events with me and likes to travel.

A spanko. Honestly that’s a big one. If you ever wonder what I want or what I’m thinking about… spanking is often the answer. If you can see yourself wanting to spank someone multiple times a day for discipline, fun, bedtime spanks (big fave of mine)

Please be at least 35 and in North America. Love all the replies from those overseas or 22 but logistically we just aren’t a match.