It’s been a while since I’ve posted on of these but I thought I’d give it another shot. As the title states, I’m 26 year old male currently located just outside Des Moines. I’m hoping to find a Domme to form a genuine connection and relationship with in the area. My end goal would be to find a forever partner who’s interested in being the dominant one in the relationship in every way. Doesn’t have to always be kink based or a literal 24/7, but you should always be in charge and I should always reciprocate in kind to your desires.

As far as kinks go, I’m relatively open to whatever best fits your needs. From my experiences, I enjoy pain, degradation/humiliation and bondage and would definitely hope you would also be interested in these aspects. Would love to talk details and find out what we have in common/any ideas or wants you have. I’m willing to try most things but I will be upfront and say certain dynamics, such as mommy/little boy, don’t interest me at all. Most importantly, I don’t believe all our kinks need to align 1 to 1 and I think building an authentic connection is the most important step to focus on.

I don’t really have a preferred type I’m looking for. I would ideally hope to find someone close to my age but as long as there isn’t a huge age gap I don’t see an issue. Hopefully you’d also be a bit nerdy like me. While I’ve spent a lot of time with outdoorsy people in my life, things like sports or hunting don’t appeal all that much to me.

As for me, I want to be upfront and address my shortcomings. I am currently overweight and although I’m currently dieting to lose weight, I have a ways to go. I just recently got a car and am saving/looking for a place of my own, but I do currently live with family and wouldn’t be able to host immediately. And, something I hope is understandable given how expensive things are, I do work two jobs at the moment. One is only part-time so I do have a fair amount of free time, even if I’m still working at least on job most days.

I think that covers most of it. Thank you so much for reading and I hope to talk with someone soon. Feel free to reach out with any questions you may have.