Hello! I hope you've had a great weekend and that you're surviving this crazy heat. Also, thank you for reading this post!

About me: I'm 35, I work a full time job in the corporate world, I own my own vehicle and I have my own place. My friends would describe me as outgoing and kind, and I love to make people laugh. I am a giver and a pleaser. I love to host and cook for large groups of people and enjoy the company of friends. I also set healthy boundaries to make sure I don't over-extend myself. When I'm not working my 9-5, I like to spend my time gardening and cooking, going to the gym, trying new restaurants, and playing board/video games with my friends.

Looks wise, I'm light skinned, I have short brown hair, a short and well trimmed beard, and blue eyes. I'm 67'4, 220lbs, and I would say my body is about an average build (working a desk job finally caught up with me). I'm happy to share pics once we've talked for a little!

What I'm looking for: Like I mentioned in the beginning, I would prefer something long term. The most important things to me is how we get along, how we build together, and how we solve problems together. I would love someone who likes to travel, loves to try new places to eat, and likes to make new friends. I would love someone who takes the lead, however I'm not expecting you to run everything. In the long run, you can expect that I will work to keep our space clean, I will happily plan groceries and cook all the meals (currently working on perfecting some home made pasta recipes) and will always help support your goals and dreams. I’m also not looking for someone to fix me or anything like that (I’ve gone through therapy and I’ve been in a very good headspace for quite a while) and I don’t think I can fix anyone either.

The kinky stuff: I don’t want to go into a ton of detail here, but I feel it makes sense to list a few things I have done/am interested in to make sure things at least somewhat line up! I have been lucky where I have had a chance to try some things which I enjoyed, which are: pegging, edging, bondage, rope play, JOI, teasing, roleplay, and probably more I can’t remember! I do love being dominated mentally, that’s also a huge plus for me. My limits are permanent damage and scat, and anything underage) Also, please don’t think try at just because I didn’t list something I’m not interested in it! Generally speaking I’m willing to try anything once, as long as we can have a good conversation about it.

If any of this tickles your fancy, please feel free to reach out! I’d love to have a conversation and get to know some new, amazing people.

I hope you enjoy the rest of your weekend