Hey all,

OK so I'm not quite sure how to go about setting this up, but I'm gonna do my best, so please bear with me.

About me: I'm a pretty normal and typical guy, who has some more masculine qualities. I'm pretty large-statured, kinda built, short hair, beard things like that. I have blonde hair, blue eyes, and my beard is reddish for something reason. In terms of personality, I'm pretty reserved, but once I get to know someone I become more silly and extraoverted. I really love making people laugh, and also making people feel welcome. I'm also kind and gentle. In terms of just interests, I love being outdoors, traveling the world, photography, books, and the simple things.

Why I'm here: Well I think because of what I look like and how I behave people form an idea about me when they meat me. I feel that the idea that I will be dominant is taken as a given. More than that though, I think I perhaps impose that impression on myself, I assume it it what people want so I don't get out of that comfort zone. The thing is though I crave being submissive, and having someone take control in a situation. I crave the role-reversal and especially the more gentle aspects of it.

Who am I looking for: I've given this a lot of thought, and I'd be interested in finding a mommy domme. The nuturing and gentle and maternal nature of that arrangement is what really lights up my brain. I'm not interested in the more aggressive aspects that come along with some dom/sub dynamics. Also in terms of dynamics, I'm not sure how to articulate this, but I would prefer not to have a super strict one, I'm more comfortable confining it to I guess you would say "sessions". It just helps to be able to climb into that headspace and retain some independence.

Some Housekeeping: I'm looking for something exploratory and perhaps a bit casual to begin with, I don't really know what I'm doing so some guidance and understanding would be much appreciated. Another important thing just regarding kink in general (I bring it up as it seems to be common language) I don't "worship" in a sexual context. That terminology doesn't sit with. I like giving tons of physical attention and giving it to specific body parts, I just call it attention. Anyway, if somehow this strikes you as interested I'd be so glad to hear from you!