It's so impossible to define the type of person I'm looking for. Each dynamic is different, and so much of it comes down to instinct. Having said that, I'm looking for someone who knows who they are and what they want. Someone who communicates well. Someone not afraid to take what they want. Who is strong enough to carry me and guide me deep down into submission, push me to go further, and make me feel safe enough to let go.
For better or worse I am very much myself. Independent spirit, sassy, silly, caring, loyal, clever. Curious about everything. If you message me, please be prepared for bluntly honest answers and communication. I hope you'll do the same, transparency is very important to me.
Likes (in no particular order): reading (fantasy mostly), orgasm control, the way leather smells, video games, sensation play, light to medium pain, rope, walking, writing, cocks in general, degradation, power exchange, CNC, high protocol
Hard limits: anything illegal, anything involving people who cannot or haven't been given the option to consent, anything that would interfere with my work or existing relationships, electricity.
I am married, no kids, he knows and is supportive of me finding a Dom. Preferably online, but could potentially be discussions of meetups in future.
I prefer Reddit chat, but will check messages as well.
Look forward to chatting with you!
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