Hello there! It's hard to put the enormity of my hopes and dreams into words, but here goes. I'm a kinky, dominant man looking for a submissive slave and partner for life. In terms of kinks, I enjoy master/slave play, bondage, light degradation, body worship, outfit control, free use, dirty talk, erotic roleplay, and so much more. (My kinks are almost as endless as my creative spirit)

But I'm so much more than just my kinks, and I'm looking for more than kink as well. I'm looking for romance, connection, affection. I want to form a deep connection with someone that will sustain us both until someone locks us in a retirement home, haha! I want a lady I can take out for a night on the town, or go on a road trip with. And then when we get home, I'll fuck her like I own her. Because she'll have surrendered everything to me.

All of this is to to be negotiated, of course. I'm in no rush and am keen to ensure that we both feel completely comfortable and aligned. It's about finding an ideal relationship where both partners feel valued and fulfilled.

Now for some fun facts about me!

• I'm a programmer with a stable job and I have my shit together in general (not sure that counts as fun, but I thought I'd start by raising the bar off the floor, haha)
• Big nerd over here! I love fantasy, sci-fi, anime. Some people might call me cliche, I call myself classic.
• I'm a board game enthusiast, as I write this, I'm sitting across from the collection I keep in my office. (I've never combined it with kink, but I've always thought it would be fun to combine a board game with some kinky penalties)
• There's nothing I love more than reading a good book. (Fancy cuddling up and reading together?)
• I'm working on a health app I'm going to be releasing to the app stores soon, really excited about it
• Imagine a hobbit—that's me in a nutshell. I love both adventurous outings and cozy nights at home
• I'm quiet, kind, caring and empathetic, but don’t be fooled—I'm fiercely competitive when it comes to games!"
• Physically, I’m 6’1”, 195 lbs, with blue eyes, brown hair, and a comfortable dad bod that's come a long way after some personal health milestones. I'm the healthiest I've ever been, and I'm passionate about bettering myself physically and mentally. I'm happy to exchange pictures fairly quickly after we start chatting!

Some important things to know about me: - I'm attracted to women who are slim to curvy, but most importantly, to women who take care of their health. - I'm child free and don't plan on having kids. I got a vasectomy last year, so that ship has already sailed, lol. - I'm agnostic and not religious/spiritual at all. I don't mind if you are, but I have some religious trauma in my past, I'll never go to any formal churches again. So if that's something you need in a partner, I'm not the guy for you. - I'm not in any rush, but I do want to meet in person! So I'm really only interested in those local to the general Raleigh/Triangle area. - Traits I value in a partner include kindness, curiosity, and integrity

If I haven't scared you off yet, I hope it means we already have a bit in common! I'm looking for someone who is as enthusiastic about building a relationship as I am. Feel free to reach out with any questions or just to chat. I'm open to discussing everything from your favorite book to your views on consent and safety in BDSM. I'm excited to meet my future submissive partner!