I'm usually a mature, more gentle Daddy type, who sometimes needs to let out his more sadistic side, but lack a partner who can take it.

I'm seeking a female submissive to explore power dynamics, CNC, masochists tendencies, deep role-play, and the psychological aspects of BDSM. I prefer ages of 21-45. I might consider 18-20 depending on maturity level of an old soul in a young body.

I seek someone for an IRL dynamic, that is local to East Tennessee, Western Mountains of North Carolina, or far Southwestern Virginia.

I'm willing to start slow, to earn your trust, with just mind exploration before moving onto the physical pleasures. I'm not seeking a hookup. I'm hoping for many sessions and maybe a long term dynamic.

Mind you, I am in an loving ENM marriage with a Middle/Brat. She will know who you are and what we do. You will have an opportunity to verify with her that I'm not sneaking around. I have her permission to explore the areas which she does not want to go.

I'm new to the State of Tennessee and hope I can find someone who will eventually want to explore the local kink and lifestyle community, where we participate in local munches, events, or private functions.

I have been exploring and gaining experience since 2009 and have a fetlife profile that started in 2010.

I'm okay if you have experience, or if you are completely vanilla with no experience at all. You only need a strong drive to explore your deepest unrealized or unfulfilled fantasies and needs.

Body type is of no issue, as I see the beauty in all shapes and sizes. It's what the soul has to offer that turns me on.

I believe and practice safe and sane play, that is negotiated beforehand. I'm knowledgeable in real and long lasting aftercare. I require a safeword/signal system. I'm sensitive to past trauma and will react quickly to triggering events, to bring you back to a safe place.

So, let's have a conversation and learn about each other. It could lead to something amazing.