Are you a fit, smooth trans woman who wants to embrace your femininity to the fullest? If you're driven to be stunning and seek a partner to guide and support you on this journey, we might be a perfect match. I'm interested in a serious, mutually exclusive, and long-term romantic relationship.

With over 20 years of experience in relationships with trans women, I have a deep understanding of what I’m looking for. I value honesty and straightforwardness, and I’m not here to waste time with games or insincerity. This is a genuine and detailed post, so please read it thoroughly before reaching out.

Who I'm Looking For

You are someone who takes pride in your appearance and constantly strives to look your best. You love all things feminine – make-up, fashion, lingerie, glamour, style – and you're passionate about pushing these to new heights. Your dedication and hard work are evident, and you’re eager to continue this journey.

If you're new to feminization, this isn’t the right match. However, if you have already started and have the potential to be truly stunning, you might be the one I'm looking for. You're self-motivated, goal-oriented, and ready to achieve greatness.

You seek a partner who is your equal in every sense – a best friend, a confidant, and a steadfast companion. You need someone who offers trust, safety, love, stability, and guidance. You want a Daddy who will support you as you transform into a stunning Doll.

Further to these qualities, here are some specifics I look for:

• Single.
• Hygienic & Non-smoker.
• Non-Op, Hung, switch, not into chastity and love your dick.
• You have a very high sex drive (because I do).
• You want plastic surgery (BA, BBL, FFS, etc.) and regular touch-ups.

Most importantly: you are serious, willing to commit the time, energy, and effort, and have a living situation and lifestyle that allow you to do so.

Your Location

While I’m primarily based in San Francisco, I travel frequently. Your location isn’t a major concern as we get to know each other. However, I'm not looking for an online-only relationship. Whether you’re local or international, we’ll make arrangements to meet when the time is right. If you’re not local, it’s important that you read, write, and speak excellent English so we can communicate effectively. We’ll work out the details of meeting regularly as our relationship progresses.

Feminization

Feminization is a personalized journey, unique to each individual’s goals, circumstances, and potential - there is no one size fits all approach. First, we'll ensure that we're aligned in our desires and objectives. From there, we’ll collaborate to develop a tailored feminization program and process.

This journey requires dedication and resilience. We’ll explore your mental state, goals, desires, and more. I’m seeking someone who is fully committed, not on the fence, and ready to focus on this transformative work. I will hold you accountable, push you to excel, comfort you when needed, and provide guidance and correction when necessary.

About Me

I'm a 39-year-old dominant guy with over 15 years of experience in the D/s community. I’m white, good-looking, and 6'3" tall, with a big, muscular, athletic build (shoulders for days, lol). Not hurting downstairs either: 8", uncut, and thick.

I'm successful, well-educated, and intelligent. I love learning new things as much as teaching them. As an engineer, I have a great career and a passion for building things. I can be nerdy; I enjoy video games, anything space-related, and sci-fi in general. Lately, I’ve been playing a lot of Diablo 4.

Despite my nerdy side, I maintain a healthy social life, have a great group of friends, and enjoy spending time out and about. I hit the gym regularly and expect the same from a partner. I’m also big into philanthropy and spend a lot of time supporting worthwhile social causes and efforts (dressing up for big events is always fun!).

I’ve dated trans women for most of my adult life; I'm not ashamed of that, and I won’t hide or treat you like some dirty little secret.

When it comes to kink, I'm a Dominant trainer. My interests include feminization, wardrobe control, tasteful bimbofication, exhibitionism, public sex, and light bondage. I’m open to exploring more with a partner but have absolutely zero interest in any kind of age play or chastity.

Getting in Touch

Thank you for reading my post in full. I'm looking for an incredible partner with goals similar to mine. If this sounds like something you’re interested in, I’d love to chat and see if we might be a good match. One thing to keep in mind when reaching out:

• I put effort into writing this post; please put some effort into messaging me.

Reality

I’ve posted this quite a few times and met some incredible people, even made new friends, but haven’t yet found the right one for what I’m looking for.

I know it’s unlikely to find exactly what I’m seeking among the fantasy chasers and time-wasters of Reddit, but you miss all the shots you don’t take, so here we are.