Hello everyone! I go by Lux. Worth noting that I am in a happily committed romantic relationship, so I'm here seeking platonic dynamics or friendship. I also am asexual and prefer not to engage in specifically sexual play (there are numerous aspects of this which mean we will talk a lot about stuff like what constitutes sexual play when we do negotiations)

I find it a lot easier to talk about who I am in general than just my kinks, so I'll start with that. I have a wide array of niche interests, the current rotation of which includes modded Minecraft, whips and whipmaking (yes, for kinky stuff but also for non-kinky stuff), indie ttrpgs, and, of course, kink and sex education. I consider myself a perpetual student, so my favorite way to engage with the kink community is through classes, and especially through conventions! I'm super excited for my first con out in the Midwest, I hear the leather scene is a lot bigger than it is in New England. I also have a marked interest in disability justice and community, though I'm not nearly as well-read on this as I would like.

As a kinkster, the biggest draw for me is orchestrating someone's experiences. I love engaging with people's senses in different ways, in sensory play and also in cooking, fragrance, and massage. I am also a sadist, and I admit there are few things sweeter than having a darling sub writhing under my cane (not the walking kind). I'm also a huge fan of various forms of (temporary so far) marking, my favorites being bodywriting and impact play marks.

I'm specifically here because I had to end my first long-term dynamic when I moved. That dynamic lasted a bit over a year, and I've had numerous short-term dynamics and one-offs over the past three years. I'd love to find people to meet up with in person, but I'm keeping my hopes a bit low on that front. Likewise I'd like to get to know each other as people, as well as in a dynamic.

Hope everyone's doing well out there!