Im only looking for something longterm and serious. I am not interested in any flings. Please read my full post before messaging me.

First things first, I practice open Polyamory. So if you are monogamous or looking for a closed relationship, I am not the one for you. I currently have a girlfriend of 5 years. I am looking for something separate from her, with her permission obviously. She is not interested in being involved romantically or sexualy, so do not think she will be involved with anything. If things go well, you will eventually be introduced to her.

I have always liked the idea of an open polycule with multiple nesting partners. Ive been in a few polycules before but nothing ever worked out.

I know it wouldnt happen immediately, but having that as the end goal. If you are interested send me a dm and we will see where it goes from there.

Some things about me is I'm curvy, I have brown shoulder length hair and green eyes. Im about 5'5. As for hobbies, Id say im fairly active, i enjoy hiking, kayaking, working out and wrestling. I can play the flute and am currently learning how to play guitar and piano. Im religious, (Buddhist Pagan) so please be okay with that. I also have chronic illness.

I have a more chaotic personality, I love to talk and can sometimes act somewhat childish when i feel comfortable around someone. I have pretty dark and dirty humor too. Im much more introverted than extraverted, I tend to be pretty shy around new people.

I dont have many preferences, nothing lookwise is a deal breaker. Id prefer a person to be 18 to late 30s. It would be a bonus if you are queer, but its not required. Because it is most likely to be a mix of both genders. So if you are straight, you must be comfortable with the same sex being involved.

When it comes to kink im looking for a caregiver type of dominant. I am looking for someone who i can give up control to and feel safe with. Im still very new to bdsm, but i have many interests. My hard limits include things like urine/feces, cnc, any type of hardcore sadism (it scares me lol). I just want to be treated like your little princess who needs to be coddled outside the bedroom and currupted in the bedroom.