I am looking for a mixture of Spice and Sweet

Spice:

Someone who knows that she is sassy, that she has a smart mouth that will get her into trouble. And she wants that trouble very much. She wants to act out and cause problems because it gets her attention. Banter is needed foreplay for her that gets her motor running, and hopefully does for her Tamer as well. Someone who wants to provoke this trouble, and have her walls broken down. Have her realize that she is in over her head, that no matter how much she fights she is just getting subbier and subbier. She will keep fighting of course, she has to hold on to her pride, but inside she is turning into a gooey mess with her brain telling her to give in. How long she lasts is up to her, but the challenge is part of the fun.

Sweet

A woman who likes to cuddle and be around each other even without sex being needed. Who wants to share interests and adventures together. Who wants to laugh and enjoy life with her partner. Who wants something serious.

Otherwise in the safe for work realm I am a college student working on multiple bachelors degrees (Political Science and History) which takes up a lot of my time. I love to talk about both subjects so feel free to bring anything about them you want to discuss. In my free time I can usually be found reading (mostly sci fi and fantasy), gaming (historical games with occasional action) or watching Anime (romance as of late). I do have a bit of a spare tire but I do work out multiple times a week to work on that and tone up. Continuing the physical I am a 6ft tall (actually measured) white guy with long hair past his shoulders, a scruffy beard, and glasses. I tend to be relatively open so feel free to reach out with any questions. I am looking for something long term in person. Online doesn't work that well for me personally but will be happy to talk to people.