A comprehensive look at what I'm looking for.
When it comes to subs I'm fairly open. Male, female, trans, sissies, femboys, all are welcome (although I lean towards those with a femme bend).
My kinks are varied but humiliation and degradation, orgasm control and denial, spanking, anal, nipple play, impact play, bodywriting, and lowrisk public play are in constant rotation. And of course there are more but let's face it, I don't want to run out of space lol.
What do I expect from my sub? Obedience and loyalty are high on my list, but above that is communication. I've had subs before who didn't speak up about doing certain things because they didn't want to make me mad and that's downright silly. I'm strict, I'm cruel, I'm sadistic, but I'm not an asshole. I expect my boundaries to be respected and damn it all I will respect yours too, no matter what. Also, looping into this, I've been a dom long enough to understand the importance of aftercare and make sure to budget time for that as well.
Outside of all this horny shit I'm a pretty average fellow. I get out with friends when I can, I read, I write, I play guitar (poorly). Basically try and stay creative. I enjoy the outdoors and indoors equally. I'm just as comfortable camping as I am laying on the couch. My main music is heavy metal and my favorite book is probably something by Vonnegut or Dorsey.
If any of this sounds interesting, feel free to dm or send a chat. I'm open to either. But if you do reach out, let me know what your favorite color and musical artist is so I know you read through the post.
Hope to hear from you and happy hunting.
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