Good morning! Or evening, whatever time it is for you. I'm an outdoorsy, nerdy dom(for the most part) who enjoys working with my hands and loves people. I like anything to do with hiking, camping, and canoeing, and want to start fishing and hunting, and start a small farm one day if I can get my own little bit of land. I like antiques and woodworking, lots of different kinds of music(the weirder, the better), I write often, and try to draw when possible. I'm also... sexually complicated, haha.

I've been a dominant for my whole sexually active adult life so far, and I love it. Using my muscles, pinning my partner down and taking control in bed..but while I definitely bite, I'm not a sadist. I'm much more of a pleasure dom and deeply enjoy giving oral, almost as much as I love fucking. I love foreplay, and never skip aftercare! I've dabbled in things like bondage, wax, sensory deprivation, and edging, and I would very much like to get better and explore these more - both on the giving and receiving end! While I am naturally dominant, I've been having more and more submissive fantasies of increasing intensity in recent times. I'm not sure what's revealed this part of me, but it's enough to make me call myself a switch and seek out a relationship with somebody interested in both! I'm not ready to dip my toes into things like pegging or anything intensely S/M like cbt, but I find the idea of being restrained and used for my lover's pleasure.... downright thrilling. As much as being the one doing the restraining, I could say. This was all a very roundabout way of saying I'm a switch looking for a switch, I just don't want anybody getting the idea that I'm outwardly dominant but internally just a submissive slut, y'know? This is a part of me I haven't really played with, and I'm looking for somebody with which I can indulge in both. I have also always wanted to share my partner in an MFM threesome...and even long fantasized about organizing a gangbang for my beloved. This is obviously not something I will pressure you into, but it is something I'd like to talk about!

Now, who am I looking for? What's my type? Great question. I'm hesitant to date anybody 20 or below, I really prefer women my age or somewhat older, though 27-28 would be my limit. But there may always be exceptions! It really depends on how well we vibe. I want a woman in my life I can eat out on a sunset picnic date, tipsy on wine, a woman I can take to the Renaissance faire - bonus points if you'll fence with me, a woman I can cuddle with while a Queens record plays low in the living room, a woman I can take out to the river for skinny dipping in the summer. If you're that kind of girl, I really don't care what you look like - I love women of all shapes, sizes, and colors! If you're interested in messaging me, just tell me a bit about yourself, your interests, and your kinks, and I'll probably get back to you fairly quickly. I hope to hear from you soon<3