Hi! I woke up from a kinky dream a few hours ago about a guy putting me in bondage and am compelled to place this ad! I'm a single 52 year old guy who has no experience with guys or BDSM, but desperate for both, and hopefully both at once!

For too long I have fantasized about another man owning me, taking control of my autonomy, testing my limits. I want to be stripped, literally and symbolically. I want to be humbled. I want to be humiliated (but not abusively so). I want my decisions made for me. I long to be reduced to a desired sex object.

In return I want to be introduced to a new world. I want to be led to new excitement that I wouldn't know otherwise. I crave strange, enlightening relationships with people I wouldn't normally meet. I want to explore the farthest corners of my sexuality, and enjoy every bit of it. In a way, I want you to :unlock" me.

I prefer a Dom or Master who's older than me but I'm OK with someone starting at around my age (50s). Much more importantly it's important I meet someone who understands this is all very new to me and although I'm very eager I'm also nervous and might be hesitant, so I need to trust you and feel secure in you before I start giving myself to you. I;m sure you'll agree with me this might take some time, but the effort will be worth it!

I'm not setting out to make any long term commitments, but I'm open to it if it turns out that way, though I'm not looking to change my life completely so I'm not interested in anything 24/7.

I plan on being open to multiple Doms as long as it doesn't pose any conflicts or other problems, but if you insist on or demand being my only Dom, I can obey.

I'm very open to being lent out to your friends or anyone else you feel appropriate. I'm also very open to being shared by a group.

I reserve the right to set limits. For now I will say those are anything gross like scat, consuming any kind of waste product, public play (except where everyone knows about it and consents), extreme pain, and anything that leaves permanent marks or signs.

I'd much rather meet in person eventually, but open to interacting online, preferably through camming. Text only will probably not be successful with me. I'm in the Buffalo 716 area. Not set up to travel.

Finally, I'm open to and grateful for any suggestions, thoughts, etc. since I'm very new to all of this!