I'm a 28yo switch looking for either a fellow switch or dominant. just to clarify from the start, just because I am a switch doesn't meant that we have to switch. you can be 100% dominant/top if that is what you desire. I just like both roles with no real preference to one or the other so I feel like I fall in the switch category.

about me:

I'm 6'4 210lbs for those that care, im not in perfect shape but I do look after myself. I have brown hair brown eyes and tanned skin. my workouts are irregular due to my work schedule.

ok since I mentioned my work schedule I should touch on that. I mainly travel for work so approximately 3 nights a week I am in a hotel is what it works out too, my work is kind of seasonal so there is a busy and slow time so I'm gone alot during the busy season and work from home the rest. so far this year I've had to travel to 3 countries outside my own, most of my travel is within canada but I do visit Germany and the US occasionally. I've been in Germany the past 2 weeks.

on top of this I own my own seasonal business which eats up alot of time aswell.

I am from a rural area so this is kinda my outlet for kink🫣

about you:

take everything here with a grain of salt because at the end of the day connection is king and don't hesitate to reach our if you don't match anything below.

I like seeing women with drive, who get the feeling of achieving there goals just to turn around and want more. it almost a high all on its own. I hope there is someone who gets this.

looks wise I'm into the innocent nerdy type who surprises you in the sheets.

height isn't a big thing but the idea of being dominated by someone half my size in height is pretty hot. and generally health and hygiene is a must. (bonus points if you want to be my workout buddy.)

hair colour is what ever, im not in goth/alt styles unfortunately for something long term. it's just a bit much for me.

banter/ flirt is a must though, boring texts and phone calls about nothing I find extremely painful.

age 22-32 would be ideal

ok you've made it this far time for the fun stuff 😉

my submissive kinks are: anal, cei, bondage, cbt, pegging, waxplay, worship, denial, orgasm control, light impact play, keyholding, chastity, micro management, workout control and there is other stuff I'm open to those are just the main ones.

hard no's: black mail, blood, watersports, toilet play, anything illegal, anything leaving permanent damage or markings, anything that hurts public image, cuckolding, cheating, being toxic in general

kinks as a dom: I will leave out since this is a femdom post 😉 plus I can't give up all my secrets.

ideally we would start online then eventually transition to in person, due to my travel for work I think there might always be an online aspect anyways. I feel like this is a fairly long post but im trying to give you a good idea of who I am and what I'm looking for, if you have made it this far thankyou for reading and I hope to hear from you😘