Before we begin, I am not looking for a relationship that is purely sexual. Moreover I am not looking for one that starts with sex. I will get into this further down but I know this is a deal-breaker for many.

Firstly I will tell you about myself. I am a 6’2”, 210 pound, male Dom who has been a Dom in both serious and casual relationships since I was 19. I am Caucasian with dirty blond hair and blue eyes. Currently I work in HR in the public sector. I spend my time out of work watching movies, working on my digital art, hanging out and playing games with friends, hiking and camping, and, especially recently, a lot of reading.

I am on the softer side of Doms, and I much prefer praising over degrading my partners. That being said, I am not above giving a stern talking to, lines, spankings, or something more creative for those who need to be punished. I like being a strong, guiding presence, who pushes his submissives into being their best selves as I see fit. I have been often described as a golden retriever boyfriend, however those who have been tied to my bed frame may have to disagree.

What I look for in a partner is first and foremost loyalty. Nothing is more perfect to me than an honest, loyal submissive who tries their very best. I have no preference in gender identities however I like my subs slim, hairless under the head, and under 6ft. You do not need to be experienced, I have had first time submissives before and am willing to go at whatever speed is needed. I am only looking for individuals who live in Canada right now. It does not need to be Ontario but I do not want the complications of citizenship.

Now to explain the preface: I much prefer submission offered over taken. So I will not expect, nor want our relationship to be based on purely sexual desires. In the early stages of our relationship what I want is to take responsibility for what in your life is currently overwhelming. I will guide you into achieving your best self and you will keep me from boredom in my office. As our relationship extends, I hope to take on more choices around your life. When you feel safe and truly trust me, something there is no expected timeframe on, you can offer yourself up to me.

In the long term, I hope to have a 24/7 D/s monogamous relationship with TPE elements. What I care about more than the specifics is a strong sense of ownership and structure. As I stated before I am experienced, however if my experience taught me anything it's that no two subs need the same thing. 

Kinks: I am only listing my most prevailing kinks. If something you enjoy is not listed here it is likely something I do enjoy with the right partner as long as it is not under my limits.

-Petplay

-Training

-Rope and Cuff Bondage

-Decorative rope work 

-Freeuse

-DDLG without ageplay

-Toys

-Edging, Orgasm denial, and forced orgasms

-Chastity / Key Holding

-Worship

Limits:

-Ageplay

-Scat

-Blood

-Permanent harm

-Anything criminal

Possible deal-breakers:

-I don't have children nor want them

-Left leaning politically

-Clean-shaven